There are people who hate HOA’s and people who love them.
Maybe I’m a little off my rocker, but I’m okay with HOA’s because because there are rules. I know when I go to sell my home I won’t have to worry about the pink house next door or the guy with his 1980’s Uncle Eddie camper down the street, or the guy with his car jacked up on cinder blocks in his front driveway making my home to potential buyers undesirable. That being said, the next house we buy {our forever home, will not be a part of a HOA because it will be in the middle of nowhere}.
What I hate, are the busy bodies who {typically} run the association. Although in all fairness, I have no idea who is actually on my HOA landscape committee nor do I really care. The rules are there for a reason. And if you buy into a planned community, you are suppose to follow them. I get it. I can live with that.
But what I really despise are getting anonymous letters in the mail from people on said committee telling me I am in violation. Which is exactly what happened last week {but c’mon now… it took them long enough don’t you think}. 😉
But, I’m a big girl. And I can play the game.
I knew when we moved to this neighborhood there were rules. Just like there were rules in every single other development we’ve ever lived in. Never once did I get a letter. I knew in our last development I was crossing the line when we bought chickens. Technically, “no caged birds or livestock” were allowed. I was prepared to argue that the chickens were “pets” and that since they free ranged, they were not “caged birds.”
But luckily, I didn’t have too. Because no one really cared. Well they did show a wee bit of concern at first because they thought we would keep roosters. Which we did not.
But in this neighborhood, they care. OH BOY DO THEY CARE.
Here is {part} of the letter I received last week.
At first when I read it I was like… exterior changes? I didn’t make any exterior changes to my house. I didn’t paint it, or add on a deck or anything strange. I pruned {okay, hacked} a few bushes {okay, a lot}. And then I was like “Oh crap, if the HH finds out I got caught he is going to FLIP OUT. {He is a total rule follower}.
So I called the lady at the HOA office and asked her if there was a special form I was suppose to fill out and what I needed to include. I also quickly ran my garden box idea by her and got the feeling from the tone of her voice that if the garden boxes could be seen from the road, they were going to be a “no go.” I mentioned I had seen a few other homes in the neighborhood with similar garden boxes in their side yards like the ones I was planning on installing. She said something like, “Oh, if you want to write down their addresses the committee can drive by and take a look.”
Umm. No.
I wasn’t about to get someone else in trouble for growing a few freakin’ vegetables.
ARE.YOU.KIDDING.ME?
So I quickly drew up a sketch of what I was “proposing to plant.” I made no mention of anything I had removed. I also included a “Plan B.” {Basically same garden boxes but in the upper garden instead of the side yard.”
And then I turned in my form.
We’ll see what happens.
~Mavis the Garden Rebel.
Vicki says
Oh boy! I’ve lived in two places with HOA’s, I hated living in the first. It sounds like yours, with lots if big egos ready to pounce on anything they can to wield POWER. Ugh! I now live in one that is reasonable. You better believe I researched this place a lot before putting myself under another set of rules! I’m very, very happy where I am now. I wish you luck!
Jenna says
Did you get a copy of the homeowner bylaws when you moved? Sounds like the A.C.C. (Architectural Control Committee) is for the actual structure, not the grounds. Even article X doesn’t hold up as a reason to write you a letter. You didn’t make changes to the exterior of your home, just the grounds. Do you have a lawyer friend? Before you get into a back and forth with this busy-body organization, I’d advise having someone advocating for your side, even if they are just a benchwarmer/advisor.
Vicki says
Yep, I finally cut off contact with the board. Every communication from them had to go through my attorney…his suggestion for my peace of mind.
Kellie R says
Well, if they would READ the BLOG they wouldn’t have to be snooping around making you draw plans and write letters! Sheesh. Seriously, though, I agree with Jenna. When you’re dealing with professional pushers arounders (don’t even bother looking up that term…I totally made it up) you need someone who knows the game and how to push back. This is a neighborhood, not a police state.
tc says
this is why I would never buy into an HOA, you pay really good money for a home that you think you own and you don’t because HOA can take it for unpaid dues, the tax man can do the same, you are renting the land you don’t own it, unless you put yourself completely in the private and I am not sure you can do that in an HOA controlled place.
They usually only like people who are to afraid to step over the line or colour outside the lines. Be little sheople and just follow blindly what we say.
Mavis that is just not you, I hope you can get round this and then hurry up and find your forever home in the middle of no where.
Pam says
Have lived in an HOA community just once. I was fined several hundred dollars for removing some deceased azalea bushes (can’t tell you what happened to them but they were deader than dead). It took me about 10 days to replace them (also with azaleas but it took me a while to find a nursery with white ones – didn’t want pink). The fine was a per day penalty for removing the landscaping without immediately replacing it. According to my HOA, I should’ve left the dead plants in place until I had the plants to replace them. Apparently, dead plants are preferred over no plants. I fought them over the fee and got it reduced but still ended up having to pay a fine. I will sleep in my truck before I live in an HOA neighborhood again.
Pam says
By the way – I feel about azaleas the way you feel about rhododendrons. They’re very pretty and I love to look at them. But when they drop their flowers they create a MESS of the area they’re in. I DID read the guidelines enough to know I couldn’t CHANGE the landscape. Nothing in the guidelines about a temporary loss. They said my removing and not replacing immediately was considered to be a “change”.
tc says
I hear you, I think you should have taken them to small claims court over that one. We have to educate ourselves on how to fight these people including over zealous code enforcement. Are you a woman/man or are you a person? I am a woman and if you read the codes they never refer to a woman or man only to persons or corporations.
Next time, ask them to produce the man/woman who you have harmed by your action so that you might settle the matter with that man or woman. If they say you harmed the community/town/state, ask them to bring that community/town/state in front of you so that you may settle the matter?
it all comes down to money and that is why they fine you so they can make money and put you in your place “unless you know who you are man/woman” We perish for our lack of knowledge
Glenda says
HOA’S are just another form of “Big Brother Control.” Under the guise of keeping a neighborhood free of undesirables the ‘board’ secretly loves telling other people how to live. I am all for chickens and gardens in town. Unfortunately, the ‘dependent’ love to make sure no one can provide anything for themself. These are the same people who spray chemicals on their precious useless grass, then spend a fortune watering it all summer, only to cut it and start the process all over again. It’s all about looks, which is always the case with the impractical and superficial wasters of society.
Just for the record, so no one thinks I live in the wasteland, we reside in an HOA having moved from a small town recently, and I acquiesced to this ridiculous arrangement to be closer to our grandchildren, which is most important to us. Does a HOA protect monetary investment – maybe, but so does growing one’s own vegetables in a beautifully designed and arranged garden bed. I fully understand the “protect the beauty of the neighborhood” concept.
When living in a HOA area, it’s wise to either be on the board or have a close relative who is :).
Rosaleen says
Mavis’s situation is exactly why I hope NEVER to live in an HOA property.
Elena says
I would definitely get a copy of the bylaws. It sounds like they are overstretching. You did not make changes to the exterior of your home. You made changes to your landscaping.
Claire T says
I think HOAs are there so people won’t have to actually talk to their neighbors. I severely dislike them. Maybe at some point in some neighborhoods they were warranted but most have completely gotten out of hand.
Jill says
I don’t *think* I would like to live in a neighborhood with an HOA – but then again, there is one house down the street that enjoys a dirt front yard, and a house in the opposite direction is painted red. Not red accents. Just red. All the parts are RED!
Dena says
From a dictionary definition, ” ….. changes can be made to the exterior of your home …..” would be different from ” ….. further landscaping …..” Does it specify in the “CC & R” the difference between the exterior of a home vs landscaping, or are the two, one in the same? Unless there are specific definitions of “exterior of a home” & “landscaping”, then you have not changed the “exterior of your home” (though I would be careful if you every have to change the outside light fixtures! Look at what is written – it is a contract you have ‘signed’ when you purchased the house; what is inferred or desired by an ACC is not!
Karoline says
Mavis, your blog is exactly the reason we would NEVER buy a home in a HOA area. We actually stayed in an apartment much longer than we wanted to,simply so that we were able to find a home with very few neighbors. Those neighbors were at least a quarter of a mile away in either direction. The very thought of someone sitting there with a ruler and deciding that my lawn was 1/16th of an inch too long is something I just couldn’t abide
Diane says
I’d sooner stick steel needles through my eyes than live in a development with an HOA. I’ll take my chances with the potential for trashy yards and bright yellow housepaint. HOAs are breeding grounds for self-important bullies.
That said, you should have been given a (FULL) copy of the by-laws when you moved in. If you get any more pushback, hire an attorney who is experienced in these types of problems. Every $200 you spend now will save you $2000 later.
Vicki says
I agree, the people on the boards of some HOAs use the rules to bully. It’s their egos. Yes, self important bullies! Not reasonable people.
bobbi says
what about your back yard? not enough sun? Thank God we have HOA. We live on 9 acres in the burbs & we were here first. They built up around us.
bonnie says
Wow! I really thought I was the only one that had this problem! I got a nasty gram for leaving up a pine wreath with a red bow on it after Christmas. They told me the pine wreath could stay but the red bow represented Christmas and Christmas decorations needed to be removed by Jan 10th. Just shook my head!
Mavis Butterfield says
Well what about Valentines??? LOL
Monika says
Wow! In our tradition, the Christmas season ends Feb 2.
Jill Johnson says
We lived with an HOA one time in Kirkland. When we decided to move, we moved to the sticks of East King Co. and chose a development which was rural and had no HOA. Never again. I plant what I want, where I want. Move sooner rather than later. You will feel better. I did. We have been here 25 years this year.
Monika says
We are on the east side sticks as well – we moved here a few months ago. I noticed that HOA homes in the area of similar size, age and sq ftg were selling for less! I had my realtor get all the bylaws, one was EIGHT pages long. All those developments were crossed off my list after that – what is the point of acreage if it isn’t really yours?
Carla says
Absolutely hate HOAs. Have lived in several. They are the gestapo. Don’t live in one now and never plan to again! If I had gotten chickens I probably would have been hanged.
Beth says
I’ve been -sort-of- in similar situations but on the opposite side. I live in a place where there is an HOA, and everyone loves to complain about the HOA, but no one wants to serve on the board. I got myself sucked into serving as the president for two and a half years, not because I wanted to, but because no one else would do it. I know I wasn’t great, but NO ONE ELSE WOULD DO THE JOB. People were constantly calling me, knocking on my door, complaining, falsely accusing me of negligence, falsely accusing me of lying. Maybe there are some HOA board members in this world with a chip on their shoulder, but I was just hoping to get out alive.
There was one neighbor, in particular, who, over the course of five years, has repeatedly failed to pick up after his dogs (and there have been times when the poop situation outside my door has been beyond intolerable), and even more repeatedly thrown wild parties at 2 am. No matter what we do, he doesn’t think he has to be held responsible for his behavior. To my knowledge he owes the HOA board $250 in fines stretching back to 2013. We have tried fining him even more, we have tried asking nicely, we’ve tried calling the cops. How do you reason with a sociopath like that?
jan says
Money seems to get most peoples’ attention. Can’t the HOA slap a lien on his property for unpaid fines? He might not pay it now but he won’t be able to sell without settling up.
RebekahU says
My biggest gripe about HOAs in general is that it gives cowardly, busy-body, controlling people some nameless, faceless group to hide behind. Whatever happened to good neighbors? People who reached out to one another, and try to get to know the other person. Once a relationship is established, it is so much easier to voice concerns, and try to work them out. HOAs make it possible for busy-bodies to interfere in others’ lives without even knowing one thing about the person they file the complaint about. YES – it is good to keep cars on blocks out of the driveway, and yes, no one wants a fluorescent orange house next to theirs, but 100% of my contact with HOAs has been negative. I feel a RANT coming on. Deep breath… From wanting to approve the flower pots I place by my front door, to someone stating that my dog barks too much (and even suggesting we have his voice box removed!!!) (AND he was an inside dog), to wanting to approve the trees we remove from the property – even though the trees were dead and were VERY close to the house, and the icing on the cake was this one… We were doing a remodel at our home – turning the garage into a bedroom for my ill father. I was pregnant at the time, and at 24 weeks, my water broke and I was placed in the hospital. So – needless to say, the remodel came to a halt – right after my husband had removed the garage doors. Did any neighbor stop by to ask what was going on? Did anyone try to call us to find out what had brought the project to a screeching halt? After a three week + hospital stay, we had a very sad outcome – the loss of our son after a struggle in the NICU. And what greeted us when we got home from the hospital? A letter from the HOA threatening to fine us over the removed garage doors. And what even made it WORSE was that we lived in the back of the neighborhood, back from the road on a cul-de-sac – surrounded by two plus acres of trees!!! There were zero neighbors to even be bothered by the project!!! It was at that point I decided that once we sold that house (which we did shortly thereafter) we would NEVER, NEVER, NEVER live in a place with a HOA no matter how nice the place seemed. We now live in a rural setting in a suburban area. One of the first things I did when we got here was to reach out to my neighbors. I think it is so important to get to know those folks that live near you. To change this old world, we have to try to become the change we want to see in others. Mavis – I think you should lawyer up. Put a generosity enabler up on your site, and see who would come to your defense. Don’t let the cowards steal your gardening joy!! I am sorry for the rant.
Cecily says
I am so sorry for the loss of your son. That is s so sad.
Mavis Butterfield says
Oh RebekahU I am so sorry. 🙁
Jennifer Meyer says
So sorry for your loss and the horrible way you were treated 🙁
Cecily says
I really hope you’ll be able to plant all the garden goodies you have planned. It would be just awful if your HOA doesn’t allow vegetable gardens at all.
Lisa Millar says
Fascinating!! I have never had to deal with a HOA – (In Australia called a Body Corporate) but not so common in most towns – just major cities (altho it may be coming more common now?) And generally they are not for free standing houses/neighbourhoods, they deal with apartment blocks and townhouses.
That would drive me around the twist… I have had an interesting fifteen minutes with google to read some stories! Wow…
I am going to love following this story!
Good luck Mavis!
Lisa Millar says
I would be very uncomfortable knowing a HOA can foreclose on your home for a few hundred dollars of unpaid dues or fines!! I didn’t realise that such a high percentage of homes in the US were under a HOA.
Brenda says
We moved into a house in a HOA one thanksgiving and couldn’t get our fifth wheel in the backyard as the gate wasn’t big enough and the ground was frozen. We just parked it in the driveway. A week later we got “the letter” too. My husband was furious so went outside and tore the front part of the fence down and backed the camper into the backyard. Since the ground was frozen and we needed to keep the dogs in the yard, we had a “lovely” orange plastic snow fence until the ground thawed in April. We never did get another letter. I think they were afraid of what our solution would be.
Renay says
Yikes. I am on the Board of our neighborhood association (not an HOA, so no CCR’s). We just want to make the place better and improve property value. I think it has been a great way to meet my neighbors and make sure that folks are ok and to know that there may be troubles where we could help out. None of us are busy bodies or power hungry – we are just simply trying to help and build a community. I would definitely get the bylaws and then find out how you amend them and propose those amendments – be the change you wish to see.
Mavis says
“Be the change you wish to see.” Love this quote!
Ellen says
OMG!!!!! I had no idea…………………. it’s a good thing I live next to a cemetery. I’ve never been good at following the rules,
Now I know fr certain that I will never move.
renay says
My favorite joke…why do they have a fence around the cemetary? Because people are dying to get in!
Heather says
Frustrating. Try to remember the positives about living in an HOA though. In my old neighborhood, our next door neighbor rode full sized dirt bikes all day long on a half acre lot. Very very loud and nothing I could do about it. Tried talking to them, then wrote a letter, then had to call the police and finally moved. HOA= bliss
Crystal says
Mavis I wish you luck in the HOA disagreement. We lived for 5 yrs in one and will never, ever go back to another one. The idea is good but then you have the picky people who target only certain people and then let their friends slide on the CC & R’s. It will be interesting to see how this plays out. Please keep us posted. 🙂
Irene says
What would the repercussions be if you just did whatever you had planned anyways? Doesn’t sound like they have much ground to stand on with their complaint. They could give you a fine, that you just don’t pay, and then what? They’ll stomp their feet and wag their finger?
People like that need to get a job/life.
Debbie says
At our last home we put up a fence on the weekend. It was on uneven ground, so we needed to trim the height of it in places, as we knew it was a bit over the height allowance for the neighbourhood. We had run out of time on Sunday, so were planning on trimming it after work on Monday. By Monday noon we had a letter telling us we were in contravention of the rules and would be fined if it was not trimmed within 5 days. At the most, it was 4 inches too tall, in about 3 spots. That was the point we started to look for another home.
We now live in a rural farming community, on 5 acres, and LOVE it. Our saying has always been that if you want to pay our (very high!!!) mortgage, you are more than welcome to tell us what to do with our property, but until that point, you can keep your opinions to yourself! 🙂
Lisa Millar says
This actually made me laugh – not because of the stupid harassment you went through (altho it sounded like your move was fantastic) – but it was picturing the letter writer…. rubbing their hands all day, peering through their curtains, watching you build your fence, gripping their tape measure ready to pounce the second you left it unattended.
I can see their little faces light up with glee when they “Found A Violation” !!
Slaving over the letter to promptly and officially get it into your letterbox to point out the error of your ways!
Some people lack good hobbies and a life in general!!!!
Debbie says
Haha! That’s actually not far from the truth! 🙂 He actually sat outside in his backyard with a glass of wine and watched us cut the fence that night.
Lisa Millar says
What an arrogant so & so!!
Around here someone wouldn’t sit about ‘snoopervising’ with a glass of anything – they’d roll up their sleeves and come over and ask if they could help!
Loving the country life! 🙂
Mavis says
Snoopervising might be my new favorite word! Awesome.
PattyB says
Love the word “snoopervising”! Great word!
Mavis Butterfield says
Me too. 🙂
Mavis says
And this just made me laugh. Thanks for the giggle Lisa!
Lisa Millar says
🙂
mdoe37 says
HOA — never. Yes, you have to have rules. You already have them. Cities have them, townships have them. HOA are a little clique of busybodies (read elitists) . For instance, I live in a rural town with a township governing board. Because I have a small property, I cannot have farm animals……makes perfect sense, I have a SMALL property. If you don’t have those “obvious” rules, you would be surprised (especially in a rural area). Over by the lake (same township), they have the “lake association”. And have their own set of rules that govern their properties…unfortunately a couple of them are on the township board and keep wanting to spew their “city” ideas into our rural town. These kind move to the area and complain, this, that, it smells……to the point that our county produced literature explaining that it was a rural, farming county and that they should be aware that farming smells…..and added a scratch and sniff to the brochure. They get all huffy when a tractor drives by their homes endangering their children…..erm, tractors don’t drive that fast and children aren’t really entitled to play in the street.
But that’s the nutshell, they feel entitled to tell you how to maintain your home. Think about it…….a LANDSCAPING PLAN???
However, our town does not allow a property of my size to have chickens, any period. Now that chickens are becoming fashionable (and that’s all its about really), I may challenge it…..not that I want chickens, but its the principle.
Alison says
We just moved to our forever house, and a topic criteria was NO HOA. It is an older suburban neighborhood that is well-maintained… No HOA required.
Debbie says
Good luck to you Mavis I suggest you keep copies of all communication with this committee. I also suggest that you get a list of who is on this committee you need to know who it is you are dealing with , it could be your neighbor. Although my community does not have a HOA we do have a set of rules that are applied when they choose too and are applied to everyone
PattyB says
H0As have meetings that members are allowed to attend. It’s more like a PTA meeting but at least you can get to know the people who sit on the board. In my old neighborhood it was a corporation who managed many communities. That guy, the manager, didn’t give a whit about anything. He had a paid position and only cared about making his employer happy. There were residents who were on the board too. They are the Nazis who patrolled the neighborhood.
The house I live in now also has an HOA but the rules are a bit more relaxed than the last place I lived in. They do want a drawing of any landscaping changes you plan to make. They also have guidelines on how much lawn to garden you should have to help your plans . Anything beyond those recommendations needs an approval.
Next house… no HOA.
Lisa says
They are all jealous!!!
Cathy says
I’m thinking , I see a newly remodeled home for sale , HOA not a lot of fun, good luck dear
Mavis says
Haha. Thanks! Although the thought of selling my house right now makes me tired!!
Kathy says
I think I would have included the old barnwood outhouse with the crescent moon and cow cutouts. Heck, make it a double seater. Right in the middle of the front yard.
Lorraine says
Do your HOA rules state that you have to stick to the original landscaping that was done when the house was built? All of the lots were clear cut except for large trees at the time of construction. Technically you should be able to take your lot back to it’s original state and start from scratch. Just say that you don’t think the original design was very good and that you plan to improve it. Unfortunately in a development like yours there is a lot of money available for them to fight you. For fun, get the names of all those on the committee and drive by their houses and see if you can spot any deficiencies. It will give you a little fire power should you need it. On the downside it can suck the life out of your day. Good luck and don’t stop looking for houses:)
Judy says
Tell the HOA to GTH.
This is America!
Heidi P says
Have you removed all of the rhodies from your yard yet? If not, I’d suggest you go out in the dark of night and get rid of the rest. Hopefully none of the “snoopervisors” would be up “snoopervising”. Ha Ha Ha I love that word too. It’s so fun to say!
Vicki says
In the place I lived with the unbearable board, they fined a family that upgraded the side yard because a plan had not been submitted and approved by the board. Everyone loved the new landscaping, but that didn’t matter. They didn’t follow Correct Procedure and get the plan approved first. Can you imagine??
Kathleen says
No to HOA’s. When we purchase a home, we make sure there is no active HOA. Can’t stand the busybodies trying to decide what we are going to do with our property.
BUT have you checked into state and local laws? Some parts of the country have struck down busybody HOA’s from over restricting homeowners use of their property. For example clotheslines cannot be HOA banned in parts of the country. Veggie gardens are the same way. A local HOA would probably prefer to bully a poor homeowner than follow laws and {gasp} allow a clothesline or veggie garden.
Barb Stork says
When and if we ever move, the top criteria will be “non HOA” location. My cousin went to battle over a tree that was just decimated by an ice storm. A big evergreen in their front yard. It looked awful half the limbs had come down. They informed the HOA that they planned to remove it and replace it, and they were told “No.” After several letters back and forth, my cousin sent them a form to sign taking responsibility for any further damage the tree might cause in the future….they were subsequently given permission to remove the tree.
Worse, I currently have an aunt who is trying to sell her home in an HOA controlled neighborhood. She has a buyer, but the deal might fall through because the HOA board has a rule about approving any person/family moving into the neighborhood, and one of the members is down in Arizona for the winter, and she refuses to give her vote until she meets the prospective new neighbors.
Crazy town!
Meredith says
I have seen both good and horrible HOAs. Right now, I love mine…the people on it are so nice and want everyone to have a good time. I am the social chair and it is like pulling teeth to get people to come to free events. Do they want to know their neighbors? 🙁
Anyway, you have another solution…you can block the view from the street with some bushes or ornamental fence section that you landscape around. I have never heard of an HOA that you have to approve the planting of something, just that it be well maintained. I think someone might be a rhodie fan lol. Check your cc&r’s to see about that, but I would take out your plan B, state the side yard gets enough sun and offer a nice way to block the view. Anyone who knows even a little about you know it will be the prettiest house on the block! 😀
HollyG says
I’m so sorry to hear about the intrusive opinions of your anonymous neighbors. Do you think you might be able to put together a computer rendering showing the veg beds and other plantings in your plan and take it around the neighborhood getting people to sign off on it? It’s so much harder for people to support silly regulation when they are face-to-face with their neighbors (also a good way to meet folks). Maybe if you have grass roots support they’ll learn to get off your back.
I love being out here in the sticks, I could fill up a nice old toilet with begonias (very tastefully of course) and no one would bother about it. Sure, the neighbor up the road a piece has painted their place the same color and a school bus, but their happy and it gives us something to giggle about. I don’t like the idea of an HOA, it just seems like a document for folks to hide behind so they don’t every have to actually talk honestly together.
Helen in Meridian says
Oh, the desecration of the Washington State Flower….for shame. You should have taken my advice and had those pesky trees blocking your need for a sunny garden, taken out while you were back on the east coast remodeling your vacation home.
kcb says
Can’t wait for Part II.
Blaine Foley says
Exactly why I will never live in an area that has an HOA. There are people out there that care too much about stupid stuff like HOA rules. Get a life.
jane says
My HOA by laws say I can have 2 caged birds so I kept my 2 chickens in an Omlet Eglu with their fenced run (https://www.omlet.us/shop/chicken_keeping/eglu_go/?rf=4bbcc54496c992ad0a991010c37fd35a ) but the busy bodies on the HOA still made me get rid on them. They said chickens were not birds — they were farm animals and even though the by laws didn’t say so, the cage would have to be inside my house. I have NOTHING good to say about HOA and cannot wait to move.