Finding out that you have cancer sucks.
I think what made it especially hard for me was the fact that my brother died of {colon} cancer when he was 47. The same age I am now. It was slow and painful and a tortuous way to go. And that’s all I have to say about that part.
*****
This spring, my throat felt a little irritated. Scratchy, like maybe I had a sore throat or something. And honestly I didn’t think much of it. And then a week or two went by and the scratchiness was gone but now there was a band of red across the back of my throat and was that a bump I now felt on the side of my throat? But nobody could see this band of red. Not my husband, not my daughter, but I knew it was there. And my lymph nodes {which I don’t think I had ever felt before} seemed swollen.
So I hopped on Google. And basically there were three options for someone with a sore, persistent red throat and swollen lymph nodes:
- A common cold
- Strep throat
- Thyroid cancer
I knew I didn’t have a cold, and I knew it wasn’t strep throat because I’ve had that twice before sooooo, I told my husband I must have thyroid cancer. He rolled his eyes at me and said you’re fine.
So I did what Dr. Google suggested, I waited a few weeks to see if my symptoms went away. They didn’t.
And so since I didn’t have a GP set up {I never have, I’ve never had anything wrong with me other than an allergic reaction to a bee sting, a rash from poison ivy, food poisoning once, and/or strep throat {twice} so why on earth would I pay good money to go to a doctor to tell me I’m fine every year when there’s nothing wrong with me?} so I did the next best thing, I went to a doc in the box {urgent care center}.
Yada yada yada…
I made an appointment online. Drove to the urgent care place. Urgent care nurse comes out to my car, takes my temp, asks me a few basic questions, does see the red in my throat and says he wants to swab me for strep throat.
I tell him I DON’T HAVE STREP THROAT but he insists on doing a rapid test anyway and what do you know, 5 minutes later he comes back out to my car and tells me I don’t have strep, he doesn’t feel a lump in my throat, doesn’t really feel any swollen lymph nodes and maybe I should make an appointment with a GP {because clearly, it’s all in my head}.
Shocking, I know, right?
And so finally I call the number of the doctor that was printed on our insurance card and surprise, surprise they are not excepting any new patients. I hang up, frustrated.
I call back, get a different receptionist and say LOOK, there is SOMETHING WRONG with me. I don’t normally go to doctors, I don’t take any medications, but I know my body and there is SOMETHING WRONG and I’ve already been to the doc in the box and I need to see a REAL DOCTOR!!!
Well, I can set up a telehealth call…
That won’t work.
Well we are really only supposed to make telehealth appointments right now due to …. {I’m not even going to say it}.
That won’t work. THERE IS SOMETHING WRONG. I NEED TO COME IN!
I NEED TO COME IN AND BE SEEN BY A DOCTOR!!!
So, 2 days later I finally make it to a doctor’s office and I’m sitting on the examination table. BP fine, ears fine, temp fine, the doctor says you know, I don’t feel a lump in your throat, and you’re lymph nodes seem to be fine. You probably just have allergies…
I don’t have allergies.
Well, you’re new to Maine. You might. So I want you to try taking Zyrtec for 30 days and see if that helps.
I think I may have rolled my eyes.
But, since you have a family history of cancer, I’m going to set you up with some blood tests, and if you’d like, I can have you see an ENT.
Yes please! And thank you.
So first came the blood tests. And everything checked out fine. They came back perfect the doctor said when he called a few days later with the results.
And then a little while later, I went to see the ENT.
ENT guy said he didn’t see the red {I had seen months earlier} at the back of my throat, but he did feel a small hard bump on the side of my throat. And so then he suited up and performed a laryngoscopy {basically a tube with a camera on the end of it that went up through my nose and down my throat}.
He said my throat looked healthy, but the bump was concerning, so he was going to set me up with a CT with contrast scan.
I asked him what the chances were this could be cancer. And basically he said that 40% of the time he sees something like this it’s cancer, and 60% of the time it’s benign.
I asked a few more questions and his replies were all very cut and dry, unemotional and straightforward {and I liked that}.
I had the CT with contrast scan. And yep, it looked like something interesting was there alright. And then I went for an ultrasound. And yep, it looked suspicious too.
And then FINALLY, I went for an ultrasound guided biopsy. And then two days later ENT guy called to tell me I had papillary thyroid cancer and that the next call I would get would be from an oncology nurse and that he was sending my information over to the surgeon’s office and they would be giving me a call too.
This whole process has been very difficult for me {hence my recent lack of motivation and all the pajama days}, but mainly the 5 weeks in between my first appointment with the ENT to getting a diagnosis, the not knowing, the waiting, the what ifs has been the hardest.
Having to call my mother and tell her I have cancer. Making her tell my dad because I couldn’t do it. Talking to him later and having him say you’re going to be fine… and then me changing the subject because I couldn’t handle talking about it with him.
The whole thing sucks. But I still consider myself pretty lucky. The form of thyroid cancer I have was caught early and is VERY treatable. Sure I’ll have to take medication everyday for the rest of my life after they steal my parts and I’ll probably wear one of those medical alert bracelets in case I have some sort of medical emergency and can’t tell someone I need medication… but still. Things could be a lot worse.
Last week the HH and I met with the surgeon and it was decided that the best course of action is to have my entire thyroid removed. I’m on the books to go under the knife in January.
As the surgeon was going over the procedure with us, my husband {who was sitting down} looked over at us and said I think I need to sit down.
And then his face went white and he passed out.
911 was called, someone grabbed the defibrillator and nurses swarmed the room. One of them asked me if he was prone to seizures and almost in a deadpan voice I said No, he’ll be fine. He’s done this before. {2013 and in 2011}
And then we waited for him to come around.
Needless to say he spent the rest of my appointment in another room with a bottle of juice and a barf bag. It wasn’t funny, except that it was and he was so embarrassed about the whole thing.
Life, it has its way of working a little comedy into stressful situations, doesn’t it? 😉
So the moral of the story is this:
Take care of yourself. Get your bits checked. If you know something is wrong with you, scream it from the top of your lungs until you are heard. Tell your people that you love them. Because this thing called life, it really is a gift.
Cherish it.
~Mavis
Sonny says
Shazam! I’m so thankful that you know your body AND you sought out and pursued a medical person who would listen! Prayers and wisdom headed your way.
Lisa Millar says
Oh Mavis…. I am so sorry to read this – I am really feeling for you!
Unbelievable you had to work so hard to get someone to pay proper attention and check everything properly!!
Very glad its caught early and really hoping all the plans of action go along smoothly.
I had my thyroid out a number of years ago (the substantial growth was benign luckily)… the daily medication is a habit that I am a bit bad with – but you are probs way more organised than me in general so that wont be too much of a hassle!!
Apologies to your HH for chuckling at his swan dive. I think its rather gorgeous though… true love right there??
Hang in there… I am sure a million people are about to message you and send their love
Hugs from me xxx
Jill says
Hi Mavis, I have also had my thyroid out, and have had cancer – but it was breast, not thyroid. The thyroid was removed because after radiation a cyst I had turned into a tumor, benign, but I wasn’t taking any chances! Anyways, the recovery isn’t bad at all, it’s just hard to turn your head very far for about two weeks. The purple stripe of surgical glue is interesting too, but my scar is almost impossible to find. Good luck, and I hope that everything goes as well for you as it did for me.
Jane says
Oh I’m so sorry to hear your news. Sending you lots of love and wishes for a speedy recovery ❤️❤️❤️
Renee says
Sending good thoughts and prayers for comfort, peace, and healing your way.
Jennifer says
Oh dear. So so sorry to hear this. It really sucks. Glad you were diligent and caught it early. Hope the treatment goes well. In my thoughts.
Dana says
Oh Mavis! What a rollercoaster you have been on. Way to advocate for yourself! You know your body best, and you knew something wasn’t right. You now have a new project, and I feel certain you will master this one too. Stay strong!
Silke says
Oh Mavis! I´m shocked and i wish you all the best! Stay strong! Warm greetings Silke
Laura says
Oh mavis….I am so sorry! Thank you for reminding us to listen when our bodies are trying to tell us something!! Please know that you have many friends out here and we would do anything for you. Just let us know….we are listening….
marisa Atkins says
I am very sorry Mavis! please stay well.
Cathy says
Glad you kept at it , prayers for recovery , and aren’t husbands something
Mary says
Really pulling for you Mavis! My brother had his thyroid removed several years ago. Glad you were so persistent and knew something was wrong.
Colleen Steel says
So thankful you were persistent in seeking medical care. Similar story to mine two years ago, but with endometrial cancer. Catching it early is such a blessing. I’ve had several family members with thyroid cancer and removal and they got along great! We will be praying for you and the doctors in the days ahead.
Judy says
Hi Mavis, I spent 24 yrs working in Pathology and Histology. Thyroid Ca is the one Ca that I always said if I’d ever had to get it I would pick that one. You will get through this. Take care.
Cathy says
Oh, I’m so sorry to hear you’re going through this. Don’t know if encouraging stories help, but this struck a chord with me because January 10, 2021 will be my 10 year anniversary of having my thyroid removed due to papillary carcinoma, also caught in an early stage. The most challenging part of the whole ordeal, next to the fact that it really messed up breastfeeding (my youngest son was 10 months at the time), has been getting the thyroid replacement meds right. Find someone you really like and who really knows their stuff when it comes to that. Wishing you the best possible outcome!
Nancy S says
Peace and love to you. I have three friends who went through the surgery and treatment for thyroid cancer and I hope yours goes as well as theirs did.
And I feel for your HH. I almost passed out after my FIL had surgery and the procedure was being described in detail.
Good for you to advocate for your health. When you know, you know. Be gentle with yourself and do what you need to for your own healing.
Coleen says
Good morning Mavis! Boy does 2020 suck! I’m glad you were insistent about being seen and that finally someone listened to you. Taking some meds each day isn’t the worse that could happen and the fact that its “very curable” is a good thing…….sending light, love and hugs!
Candy says
Oh Mavis, I hate cancer. I am so afraid of getting it, that I go to the doctor for any little thing, yes I may be paranoid, but if I am going to have it, I better caught it early.
I will pray for you and I hope you will recover. Sending you many good wishes your way.
Candy
Teresa Parish says
Speedy recovery! Listen to your body. I found a lump 5 months after a “perfect” mammogram – stage 2a breast cancer (this was 13 years ago). Did what I had to do & continue to be in remission! (To this day, none of my doctors can see anything on the original mammogram- “microscopic”?)
PD says
Stupid cancer. Ugh. Mavis, thank you for sharing this here with your online community. I’ve been a daily reader for years (!!) and reading your post today was like hearing an old friend tell me this awful news (even though we’ve never actually met). So glad you caught it early. Best wishes for a smooth surgery & recovery. You’re absolutely right that none of us know the curve balls that life will throw at us, so we should hug our loved ones tight everyday and tell them how much they mean to us. Since I don’t often comment, I’m taking my own advice here and commenting to thank you for being a bright spot in so many peoples’ days for so many years. You’re amazing. Take care of yourself and we’ll all be rooting for you!!!
Tracey says
I was going to post almost exactly what you wrote, PD. Thank you for saying it perfectly. Mavis… Thank you for being the bright spot and we’re definitely rooting for you! (picturing you kicking cancer to the curb)
Tammy says
I’d like to third this reply. I’ve been reading for years as well and cried at your news, I feel for you.. Thank you for bringing us all joy, laughter and a rallying point for our confusion of husbands from time to time 🙂
Linda says
And here’s a fourth!
I’ve been “stalking” Mavis (that’s what my daughter calls it! Ha!) & her blog for years also…& I too felt like a friend was giving me this news. So glad you advocated for yourself. I too had a similar situation & it took a year & a trip to Mayo Clinic for them to find it- Small intestine carcinoma. All is well now & I’m grateful for everyday- even the hard ones. Thoughts & prayers are being sent your way Mavis.
PS- your hubby’s story lightened the news a little though!
Anissa says
Number Five – but actually I guess #267 who wants to send you good thoughts and thankful words for all you do to bring joy to others. I also had a health scare during Covid and empathize with the sheer annoyance and actual fury I felt trying to get needed medical care. You are strong and we are all here cheering you on!
Richelle says
I’ll be the fifth! Every patient needs an advocate. Sometimes circumstances dictate that you become one for yourself. Way to stick with it. A friend of mine went through something similar before being diagnosed with breast cancer at the age of 37. She’s fine. I believe you will be, too.
Helena Michener says
So sorry, Mavis. Also, so glad you persevered to get a diagnosis sooner rather than later. Similar situation happened to me about 9 years ago when, being post menopausal I started bleeding. Long story short, I did not accept the initial diagnosis and eventually they found uterine cancer. Thankfully in very early 1-A stage and only needed surgery to eradicate it. No chemo or radiation treatment needed. Moral ~ always follow up on your gut feelings.
Crystal K says
Thanks for sharing your story. The part about the parents touched me because I’m totally the same way. Sending good vibes your way.
Sue says
Mavis, I am so glad that you didn’t quit insisting on seeing the health professionals until they found your cancer. I would have stopped at some point with enough assurance that there was no problem. Now I know that if I think something isn’t right, to keep insisting on seeing the next professional. Thank you so much for sharing your story. It’s so good to hear that your thyroid cancer is curable. If anyone can handle this, you are one strong lady who can do it!
Casey says
I’m so glad you were finally able to get someone to listen to you. I wish my friend was as fortunate. She couldn’t get anyone to listen to her about vomiting, diarrhea, and lots of weightloss for months. By the time they discovered her colon cancer, the tumor had ruptured and spread everywhere. She didn’t make it. We definitely need to be our own advocate and insist on being taken seriously. We know our bodies and know when something is wrong.
Karen says
I’m so sorry, I will keep you in my prayers. My nephew’s wife has had this and she is doing well, it will be OK!!! Speedy recovery and God Bless!
Cathy Carroll says
I had papillary thyroid cancer in 1996. My sister had died a painful death in 1993 from ovary cancer. It was a very difficult time for me. I got my thyroid removed completely and had lots of follow up tests over the years. Now 24 years later it’s just a blood test once a year and synthroid everyday. I remember when they said if you had to get cancer this was the kind to get. Then it wasn’t a comfort but now I understand because since then I have been healthy. If you have any questions please feel free to reach out! You will do great! The important thing was finding it. I’m glad you were persistent.
Melanie says
Kudos to you for being so persistent with the medical professionals. I’m so sorry that it was cancer, though:(. Thank you for sharing your life with us, even the crappy parts. I’ll be praying for you.
Sharon says
As a retired pediatric nurse, medical personnel (usually physicians) who do NOt listen to the patient really make me mad. So good for you to know what was happening in your body and yes, to have the gumption to continue ‘screaming’ until heard. Grateful you found it early. With your attitude I’m fairly sure your recovery will be quick. Prayers.
Jennifer says
Thank you for sharing your story. Your blog has been an inspiration and joy to read for such a long time, and I can’t help but consider you a friend I’ve never met. I got tears reading your post, and I am impressed by your courage and resilience. Prayers and hugs!
Kathy G says
Ditto to the above. Especially in this crazy year your adventures were inspirational and entertaining daily.
I feel like we’re friends and am taking this new to heart with tears in my eyes. Hugs.
Nancy D says
Yes! Double Ditto!! I am so thankful for your persistence in seeking medical attention. My brother passed of colon cancer almost the same time as yours. I agree that we MUST love and hug those who share our lives. So I will close my eyes and send you a warm hug and tell you how important you have been to me since my couponing days. Gods peace and blessings to you and your family Mavis!
Shari says
So sorry to hear your diagnosis. I applaud you for being your own best advocate, and for encouraging others to do the same. I will be praying for you.
Lissa from Boise says
I want to echo PD. I feel as if I know you. Not in a creepy way but in a “we’re friends” way—after years and years of following your foibles (I do still miss the greenhouse and am looking forward to your getting another one like your Maine neighbor’s) . I think your husband’s “episode “ is absolute proof that you are his world (I understand the lemon tart a bit better now). Well missy… you are important to us too. All of your readers. Thank you for sharing this with us. My thoughts go out to your family and real world friends. You are clearly a strong woman and you will get through this. Let us know if there is anything we can all do for YOU. (I’m just remembering that I sent you a flamingo many moons ago). Take care friend.
Deb says
prayers for you. My bff had thyroid cancer and took it all out. Yes, she is on meds the rest of her life, but has been cancer-free for over 10 years .
And yes, listen to your body. in October, I had an asthmatic attack and nothing was helping it. I had thought I pulled a chest muscle, so on my way to my part-time job, i stopped by the E.R. Nope not a pulled chest muscle but a heart attack. Determined due to being a sole caregiver for a parent with dementia – took no “me” time and was running myself down.
Lynne says
You are an inspiration and a guide to all your readers on so many levels, so thank you for sharing this very important and valuable lesson about self-advocacy. Prayers and love to you and the HH as you face this illness. We have to get you healthy again!
Carole says
Mavis, my SNL had this over 50 years ago when medicine was no way where it is today. She was fine then and is still fine. Shocking, scary all that. But your last words were the best, see the damn doctor regularly, be your own advocate and take care of yourself. Eat better, exercise regularly and SEE THE DAMN DOCTOR. Its your life, take car of it.
Nancy says
You are a boss lady for sticking to your guns and being such a self-advocate! Much admiration!!! Sending you lots of positive vibes from Canada.
nancy grimsley says
You are so lucky that you prevailed and finally got someone to listen to you. My sister had thyroid cancer many many years ago. Her doctor felt a tiny lump during an exam. All the doctors and nurses she saw afterwards never could feel a thing. She had the surgery and then had a radioactive procedure where she swallowed a radioactive pill and then was in isolation in the hospital for three days. She does have to take Synthroid forever but that’s simple enough. Her surgeon told her if you have to have cancer thyroid cancer is the best one to get. It’s very treatable and rarely comes back. And it didn’t. That was decades ago! I also had an aunt that had thyroid cancer in her forties and lived past 90. I know it’s very scary. My husband and I are both cancer survivors. But, you’ve got this!!! But your husband? Not so sure. Have a Merry Christmas and thank goodness you listened to your body.
Teresa says
Mavis, I’m am so sorry you are going through this and understand how scary it can be. First, let me tell you I’ve had my thyroid removed too and it wasn’t as bad as I thought it would be. I’m confident you’ll be surprised about how relatively easy the recovery is.
Secondly, I work in healthcare and see patients with a history of Papillary Thyroid cancer daily. This is absolutely something manageable. It may be difficult to deal with emotionally, but I have every confidence you’ll be just fine!!!
Prayers for a speedy recovery, you’ve got this!!!
Kim says
My understanding is that if you have to have wretched cancer, this is a somewhat well behaved one. Easy for me to say, huh? Thankful for your diligence to look out for your medical needs and NOT bow to the system.
Praying for an optimum surgical experience and complete healing!
Heather says
I am so sorry to hear this. You are strong and will get through this.
You are right about trusting your gut. I spent 2 years going to ever doc possible because I knew something was wrong with me and time and time again I was told it was in my head. Finally diagnosed it and had 4 surgeries to fix things. Trust your gut!
Lori H says
So sorry to hear your diagnosis, but thankful you caught it early. Sending hugs & best wishes as you navigate this difficult time. ❤️
Jeannie says
A Christmas miracle…you knew something wasn’t right. Good for you for being bold and getting the care you needed. Prayers for a successful surgery and recovery.
christina says
Sorry to hear of this diagnosis. But you are strong and will get through it. My daughter had her thyroid nuked at 26( not cancer but hasimoto’s) so it was radiated. she too is on levothyroxinie for life. I start treatment again in January for Multiple Myeloma which is a blood cancer. Once you get that cancer diagnosis ( mine was 2005) I don’t think your’e ever really the same. Good Luck with it and recovery as well.
Meg C says
Mavis, I was tearing up as I was reading today’s blog post regarding your health news. My family & I will be praying for an uneventful journey back to good health for you. We will also be praying for HH as he will be caring for you as you heal. You were right to “keep shouting” and identify the source of your general feelings of being unwell!
Warmly, Meg C.
Karen says
So sorry to hear.
I was also diagnosed with thyroid cancer in 2014. I ignored symptoms of hyperthyroid….tremors, racing heart rate ( actually thought I had Parkinson’s). I had a total thyroidectomy for papillary cancer and it was a same day procedure….spent the night and all has been absolutely fine! Went to surgeon inn Cooper hospital in NJ and all she does is thyroid surgery…..
Recommendation is to make sure that when you start your thyroid medication, make sure dosage high enough. My endocrinologist wanted to start me on 75 mcg a day but surgeon said no way and started on 200, which I was on for 3 years and since some weight loss now on 175 mcg. Most people say they feel tired and lethargic a bit when increasing meds up….which is done in about 3 month increments…..starting up made the difference I think over so many others. Yes…a little pill first thing in the morning prior to eating. No problems at all and have never felt better! I do get an ultrasound of thyroid area about every 2-3 years as a precaution. Surprised you did not get a biopsy….I also had a biopsy ( worse than surgery) but only came up specious as did not get to specific site of the cancer. Hope you do as great as I have done! Please contact me if I can be of any help or answer questions or offer support. A cancer that is easily treated with great results!
Vanessa Strawder says
You. Are. Awesome! How great of you to take charge of your health and push through to get the information and care you need! You are an inspiration to me in many ways – I thank you!
jessica says
I am so sorry you are going through this!! But you are so right- listen to your body, make yourself heard, get the care you need… I preach this as I just had surgery on Monday to remove a large mass (Benign Thank you!) on my ovary and due to family history the Dr took the rest of the lady parts! Not having to stress over those anymore is a slight relief!
Will be following along praying for ya!
Mrs. C. says
Oh, Mavis, I’m so sorry to hear this! I also realized that I’ve been reading your blog a looooong time, because I remember when he almost cut his leg off.
You are so right about checking our bits and parts. About 15 years ago, my HH, then in his 30s, was so tired. This is a guy who exercised, ate right, etc. I sent him to the doctor with instructions to get certain blood work, I warned him that given his age they would resist, to insist and make me the bad guy if need be. Everything happened as I said, and they finally caved.
He, a male, had early stage bone loss and wonky hormonal levels. I took him to my doctor, and told her that based on my research (Heh), he likely had a pituitary tumor and/or was reacting to his asthma medication (turns out he no longer needed that).
Well, I was right on both counts. She kind of looked at me with that indulgent look we all know and despise, agreed to send him for an MRI, and reassured me “It’s not a tumor (not in an Arnold Schwarzenegger voice, for those who love Kindergarten Cop.)
Well, it was a tumor. A benign one that had to be watched and his hormone levels had to be closely monitored for many years, but they took him off the inhaler (the steroids in it were suppressing hormone production) and he completely got off soy milk (also messing up hormones and they needed blood samples that were as unaffected as possible by stuff he was ingesting).
So far, so good, and it has been about 15 years!
I will keep you and HH in my prayers.
Karen R. says
Thank you for telling your caring online “tribe”. We are all here for you as is your loving family. You got this Marvis. We will all be here for you.
Monica B says
Oh, Mavis. I am so sorry to hear this, however you are such a strong person and will persevere. I cannot imagine the rollercoaster ride of emotions you have and did feel.
My husband has heart problems and had an aneurysm rupture in his aorta in 2019. He had successful emergency open-heart surgery for which we are thankful. He has since had more issues come along that we are figuring out and trying to fix along the way.
Not sure if this is the right thing to say but I am so ever proud of you and standing up for yourself and saying something is wrong. Due to the above I have had to learn this (not necessarily for myself yet, but my husband). It may not always be comfortable in doing so but you know your body more than anyone.
Mel says
Wow, I’m so sorry this happened (and that what has already been such a difficult year for everyone has been that much worse for you and your family) but so thankful you handled it so well and so quickly. Please let me know if there’s anything I can do to help out!
Victoria says
Mavis, thank you for sharing your experience with having to be a firm advocate for yourself. It’s really hard! I’m so glad you have so many people wishing you well, myself included.
BethC. says
Sending good thoughts. Good for you for being your own advocate! My sister was diagnosed with medullary thyroid cancer (the not good kind of thyroid cancer) in the middle of the havoc that was hurricane Sandy. Had her thyroid removed and she is doing beautifully 8 years later.
When I read your story, I was almost moved to tears. I ordered a Christmas ornament from your Etsy shop this week. Not only did it arrive in record time after I ordered, but it was beautifully packaged with a tea bag on top! The fact that you went to so much trouble to package and ship the ornament while going through a personal crisis speaks volumes about the kind of person that you are. Your fans are in your corner! Tell your HH that he needs to zip down to Dunne’s ice cream after your surgery and get you AT LEAST 3 scoops!
Cait says
Mavis, I have nothing to add to all the great comments shared above, but just know you’ve got one more voice in your chorus of well-wishers and you can do it-ers.
Katy says
It does suck. But fight it and fight it hard. Kudos for you to pushing your doctors to find it. Know that you have a whole community of people to support you along the way. And dont hesitate to ask for help.
Molly Jo says
Glad you were diligent and caught it early. Cancer sucks and this is one more 2020 thing that will soon be in the past for you as you go on to live a wonderful long life. Thank you for sharing and know all of us are sending thoughts of healing and strength!
Stephanie says
So glad you caught it early and were able to get the doctors to listen to you (I know that’s not always the case for everyone, unfortunately). My sister-in-law had a similar experience and has been living without her thyroid for many years. Wishing you all the best for 2021; may it be a safe, wonderful year with a swift return to health.
Phyllis says
I’m so sorry this happened at Christmas, but I guess that doesn’t matter really. I know you are going to be fine and things will be better. I’ll be praying to the good Lord for his healing hands to touch you. Also praying for HH to have strength and comfort.
Brooke says
I’m so sorry to hear this and wish you the best in your recovery and successful treatment. Your husband and mine sound similar. When I was in the recovery room after a procedure awaiting the sedative to wear off, my husband passed out and all the nurses taking care of me suddenly were taking care of him. I was still high as a kite and was so confused as to what was happening. He was my ride home and we had to call a friend to drive both of us home.
Daria says
Good for you for being strong and standing up for yourself. So many people end up steamrolled but you are strong. You will beat this! Good luck with your surgery and recovery. My mom is on thyroid medicine and it really doesn’t affect quality of life, besides remembering to take a pill. Thinking of you.
Rebecca in MD says
So glad you successfully advocated for yourself to get the treatment you need. Sending you virtual hugs.
Brenda says
Mavis, sending love, light, and lots of prayers ❤.
Paula says
Oh Mavis! I am so sorry to hear about your news! You are in my thoughts! Totally agree about needing to insist on the care you need. These is true especially now. Glad to hear that it is very treatable. Take good care of yourself and rest!
Chela says
Mavis, I have read daily for years but rarely ever comment. I am sorry to hear about your diagnosis. My sister and I both had papillary thyroid cancer in our 30’s. I feel like it was easier for me since she had already been through it and I kind of new what to expect. My thyroid was removed 5 years ago and now it is just a daily pill and once a year visit to my endocrinologist. I have always loved your attitude and personality that comes through what you write. I think you are a strong and will take this bull by the horns. You got this!
Karen says
Best Wishes to you for a speedy recovery and be sure to get your regular check-ups!!
Enjoy every day and keep us posted!
Heather Heldman says
Thank you for sharing this very difficult moment with us. I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and am sending you comfort. Rest all you can….your body needs it ❤️
Kathy says
Today I woke up a bit groggy, and, enjoying the early morning Christmas lights and cup of tea, thought to myself with a smile, “I wonder what Mavis has for us today?” and checked your blog before turning to all the little tasks calling my name. You always bring a smile and I’ve loved over the years popping out of my own life situations to laugh along with the way you refreshingly see the world, or vicariously travel to England or hang with the lovely Mrs. HB, marvel at your energy for house projects and capacity for bakeries, or find motivation to be creative…
…it looks like this morning, the question is more of “What do we have for you?” I hope you feel so much genuine love, prayers, well wishes, gratitude, hope, blessings on you and your family. And I’m so sorry for the hard road you are walking right now, but grateful for the love in your family and the beautiful place you find yourself in while you deal with this unexpected cancer. Thank you for sharing what’s going on with you and for the reminder of how precious life and people are. God bless you!!
Terena says
Thank you for putting my thoughts into words! All I have to say is “ditto, Mavis”.
Tracie Hines says
Everything that Kathy put into such beautiful and eloquent words, I completely agree with and echo back to you Mavis.
Sending you love and prayers, Tracie
loriann says
Will keep you 8n my prayers. have a friend who had it and that was probably 10 years ago, she has been fine without her thyroid. Its a piece you can live without! Sorry you had such a delay in getting answers. I swear the stress is worsefrom the waiting than the final answer. Take care of you throughout this. We will be here waiting for whatever and whenever you want to post.
Cathy D says
I am so sorry how awful and scary but good to know you caught it early. My friends daughter had the same thing at 17. She is now a grown woman in her 40s and very happy active and healthy. Wishing you a speedy recovery.
Nancy says
Cancer of any kind sucks! Praying you have a successful surgery. Why do men always try to steal the limelight???
You have brought a bright spot to my days this year!
Mellie says
I’m so sorry to hear this. When my husband was 43 he was diagnosed with kidney cancer with mets to his adrenal glad. Our children were 5 and 15 and I remember feeling like I was standing in front of a moving train and it wouldn’t stop coming no matter what I did. I learned to let go of needless worry and only focus on what truly matters – the people we love. Life is fleeting, but what a gift. Praying for you, Mavis.
Hawaii Planner says
Sending you so many good thoughts, to you & your family. I’m so happy you advocated for yourself (although, feel sad it was necessary), & found someone to listen.
Your blog has been a source of joy for years.
HeidiW says
It is clear you are a warrior and you will soar through this! Sending you positive thoughts as you navigate your personal battle and many prayers will be said for you and your family.
Donna Knight says
My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. I had a breast biopsy in Feb so I totally understand your
situation. You must be your own advocate because only you know your body.
Kathy says
I really a, sorry. I know how cancer rocks your world. I was diagnosed with colon cancer at age 44. I had a 3 year old and 5 year old twins. Thankfully they got it all. My dad cried. When the Dr. came to visit me after the surgery.
Here I am at 58. I appreciate all the little things more and a lot of crap icons worry about anymore.
Hang in there.
Charla says
Oh Mavis! Sending love, prayers and tears. So glad you made them check. We know our bodies better then they do.
Also, hubby passing out made me literally laugh out loud.
Love you Lady!
Jeanine says
Mavis….like everyone else…we are rooting for you.
You will make it through this. My sister and our carpenter friend had thyroid cancer. Don’t hear about a man having it very often…but, both he and my sister are fine. Hang in there….and glad you didn’t take no for an answer. Sending well wishes.
…..By the way…you help all of your readers in so many ways. Your post may help another person who may need to have their thyroid checked.
Diana says
So, I was on the verge of crying all morning and now reading this, the dam has broken.
I have a beloved dog going under the knife today and I have no idea if he’ll make it.
My Mom died one year ago on 12/27 from sepsis from an ear infection. She was a 30+ year survivor of throat cancer that I suspect was partly thyroid related. It is VERY treatable and her survival was an inspiration.
My prayers are with you and I KNOW that you’ll be fine.
Love you, Mavis…
Virginia says
Diana, I’m so sorry to hear about your pup’s surgery and I hope things turn out well. The loss of your mother strikes a chord with me as I almost lost my dad a few years ago to sepsis. I strongly encourage everyone to take a moment and read about sepsis and its symptoms, which in my dad’s case appeared to mimic the flu. Fast medical intervention is critical to survival.
Sean Cloherty says
Wishing you well
Erica says
So many of my conversations with my husband start with “my friend Mavis said…” It has become a running joke. I do feel like you are a friend, though. I “talk” with you more regularly than to anyone else I’m not related to. And, you did publish my story about my garden once, so there’s that. I just want to second everyone here who has already said that you are a bright spot in our days and a seemingly endless source of information and encouragement. Take care of yourself, Mavis. The community you’ve built will be praying and anticipating your recovery.
Michelle Counter says
Its a joke around my home too about “My pretend friend, Mavis.” So silly.
Ditto to all the kind thoughts, well wishes, prayers and sentiments to you and your family, Mavis.
Melissa says
I’ve been reading for years & never miss a blog post. As a nurse once told me as I was having a miscarriage, “Well this isn’t good.” I’m praying for you & your family, Mavis.
Linda says
I am so sorry you met so much resistance just getting a diagnosis, but good for you for persisting! My HH was diagnosed with throat cancer in 2017 & he waited until he had a very large lump on his neck. Reading your experience just trying to be heard & seen was a stark contrast to the speed & urgency my HH saw. Makes me wonder if gender played a part? At any rate, so happy you followed through & I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers and send you positive vibes. I can already see you hooking in the recovery room!
JoAnn Moran says
My dad was a fainter. It’s unfortunate that they black out when you need them. I’m sorry that you’re going through this. I hope it encourages you that I have three girlfriends who’ve had this type of cancer and they had their thyroids removed, and they’re all doing well. I will be praying for you. Thank you for sharing this and affirming what I believe. We know our own bodies, and women also know when our children are sick.
Marlena says
So glad that you kept on pushing to be seen and examined!! These days you really have to be your own advocate. You also have the benefit of knowing your body enough to be able to know when something is wrong. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers. Take care of yourself and continue to listen to your body!
Janie says
Sorry to read u have thyroid cancer.
So glad you persisted and caught it early.
I know few people that had thyroid cancer and are living their lives and doing well.
Stay strong as I know u will.
Thanks for doing an amazing job with your blog; it’s the highlight of my day.
Janie
AmyWW says
Oh my stars, Mavis! What a hard thing to go through! I’m glad the cancer you have is treatable and I’m glad you’re getting it taken care of. Sending you lots of love and healing vibes and sending up prayers to God for your health, well-being, comfort, and peace, and to bless your doctors’ and surgeons’ minds, hearts, and hands.
Nancy says
Sending you love and prayers . Take care of yourself. Wishing you a speedy recovery ,so you can continue to explore the great outdoors of Maine and your backyard and its islands.
Erin says
Mavis, I’m so incredibly proud of you for not letting fear stop you from getting checked out. Not being believed by a doctor can be such a trauma, & I’m glad that you insisted that they listen to you. I’m sorry that you’re dealing with this, but I’m grateful that you’ve shared this with us. I feel like you’ll have an army of prayer warriors standing beside you here in the inter webs. Thank you for the years & years of funny stories, adventures, and the peace & normalcy you bring to this corner of the web.
Christie says
What a story of perseverance just to get the diagnosis! You are a rockstar and will come through the surgery with flying colors. You are a warrior inside and out, I just know it. Prayers and love to you and your family!
Denise says
Prayers for you and your family! So sorry you’re facing this, so glad you persisted and got the ball rolling! Sending Love and prayers for a full recovery.
Gretchen H Shapero says
When is your surgery? Make sure you have a surgeon who is well skilled in thyroid removal.
I went thru something similar a few years back and had not only my thyroid but one of my parathyroid glands removed. Easy surgery as far as recovery. It’s not a big deal to have to take a tiny little pill every morning.
You’re fortunate it’s papillary cancer since the cure rate is so very high. This is not the same as what your brother went thru, thank goodness.
Good for you for listening to your body and not taking the initial words of the doctors.
Lisa Rostocki says
Oh Mavis I am so sorry to hear this. I found out I had cancer last year when I insisted on being checked out for breast cancer as well. You know your body and it is a good thing you were persistent. It is a long road but you are a strong person and will get through this. Stay positive and I send my best thoughts and prayers to you for a speedy recovery from your surgery.
Cindy Bowman says
It really is a gift, glad you caught it early, and prayers for a fast recovery. Enjoy the rest of your beautiful gift of life. Sounds like the hubby needs you around to pick him up now and then, got to love them.
Jennifer says
So glad you have a plan and caught everything in time. Two things – you are right in that your body will give you signs that something is wrong. Dh ignored and hid his and had a stroke at 57 and a seagulls heart bypass this summer. Yes, that is 6 bypasses in one surgery! Second, please thank your BY for passing out when he did or I would have been ugly crying!! Like you said, it wasn’t funny, but it was and it’ll bring a smile more and more as time goes by. Good luck with everything. Prayers will be coming your way.
Rachael says
Oh Mavis I am so sorry to hear the news, I am a avid follower from way back. I even live in pierce county Washington. Your old home! Sad to say I received the sake diagnosis in October and will be having surgery in a few weeks. Prayers for quick recovery and no surprises. Sending love to you and your family
Wendy W Clark says
Thank you for sharing this story because hopefully it will encourage others (and me) to get checked out when we know we need it.
Deanna L Allen says
Sorry to hear this 🙁 But if your gonna get a cancer Thyroid is the easiest My oldest daughter had it so I understand what you are going through. My 2nd daughter had hers radiated My oldest granddaughter had a growth on hers I have had thyroid issues
now that being said not to scare you but to remind you to tell your children to have their T-3, T-4,, and TSH levels checked on a yearly basis
Taking Synthroid or Levothyroxine once a day is a small price to pay vs cancer You’re going to fly though this surgery Prayers and positive <3
Annette says
I could have my arm severed and husband would be fine, but if he gets a paper cut and sees his own blood, he passes out.
Praying hard that you have a complete and total recovery.
Tracy says
I am so sorry to hear about this, but so glad you stuck to your guns with those doctors so you could get an early diagnosis. Prayers for you and your family.
Noelle says
What an ordeal! I’m so glad you fought for yourself and your health! I hope surgery goes smoothly and you heal well. Please keep us updated.
Stacie says
Oh Mavis, I’m so sorry to hear this. 2020 has had a way of throwing curve balls. I’m glad to hear it’s very treatable and you sound like you have a good team on your side (even if one passed out on ya). You’re going to rock your recovery like you do everything else you put your mind to! We’ll be sending you prayers!
Thel says
So incredibly proud of you Mavis for fighting for yourself! Shame you had to.. Sending “Huge “virtual hugs , healing thoughts & prayers .
Suzanne says
I’m so sorry that you are going through this. Thanks for sharing your experience with all of us! It’s a great reminder that everyone needs to advocate for his/her own health. I hope you are able to relax and enjoy the holidays. You’re tough and you’re going to come through all of it just fine.
Heather says
There’s nothing like going from reading about a lemon tart recipe to hearing your favorite virtual friend has cancer. As tears roll down my face I just want you to know that I am praying for you right now. I pray that you have the strength to face the day even when your body or mind doesn’t and I also hope you are filled with peace knowing that you will get through this! You got this friend! Ain’t no cancer going to mess with my Mavis! ❤️
Virginia says
Well, what a heart-stopping headline to read on your blog post today. The fact that you were able to continue with your blog during this trying time is a testament to your spirit, Mavis. And it’s that joyful spirit (and humor) that draws us regularly to you and your blog. You see things as they are and deal with it. This turn of events will be no different. You’ve motivated me to make some long overdue doctors’ appointments, and I thank you for that. Sending loads of hugs to you — and HH, too!
Deb G. says
Sending positive mojo to you! Good for you for standing up for yourself, bravo!
Jennifer says
Good for you for pushing through. You will be fine. How do I know this? Your readers need you! And apparently DH and Lucy, too… Thank you for years of super informational posts and funny bits! You will fly right through this!
Brianna says
Sheesh, you made me just about choke on my coffee with the headline. Cancer sucks and when you have it once or it runs in your family it is always in the back of your mind and becomes a fear. I am so sorry you have to be on this journey, but I can see many of your loyal readers have already been on the journey, and we are all very supportive of you. I wish you all the best for a speedy and uneventful and full recovery. Please allow yourself to take a break from your blog and rest if you need to, I am sure many of us would understand. Put your feet up by the fireplace in your pajamas and curl up with a cup of tea and Lucy and enjoy your amazing views and slow down, relax, and recover. Your body will thank you. Cancer is both a mental and physical test of strength, take care of yourself.
Karen says
You’ve got this, Mavis! You are strong, resilient, and have your amazing HH and family, as well as all of us to support you and cheer you on!
Margo says
Lots and lots of well wishes here. Let me add mine. You obviously mean much to your readers with your wit and wisdom, your sharing of your adventures and your life. And I look forward to reading your writings for many years to come. Cancer sucks, no way around it. I’ve heard a wise person recovering after cancer surgery say if cancer doesn’t change you , you’ve missed the the gift. He says that he doesn’t wish it on anyone, but it has made him much more appreciative of the gift of life and how to live everyday. I pray for you for good health, many beautiful sunrises and sunsets in your home of gorgeous views, and the ability to tell that story about your husband to your grandchildren!
Tamara says
Amen!
Our daughter is 39 and went through this six years ago. She is doing great.
When you have your surgery warn your husband that when he sees you the first time the incision may shock him; it will look gruesome and wicked, but does heal very nicely. (Follow your instructions and the scar will be almost nonexistent.) Having food on his stomach and drinking a coke before he accompanies you to appointments, etc. may give him the needed sugar in the blood to keep from fainting.
Praying all goes well!
Linda Practical Parsimony says
When the doctor told me I needed surgery, she said that if a person had to have cancer, thyroid cancer was the cancer to have because it is so treatable and never returns. However, no one would listen to me before tests. I thought I was going to have to hold a gun on and ER to get surgery. More to the story later.
Jules says
Mavis, you are the one blog I still follow after all these years. I’m looking forward to many more years of your writing.
My brother had the same cancer and 20 years later he’s doing fine. You will be too!
Lana says
I am so glad you kept pushing for answers! Take care of your self and know that all of us out here in comment land are wishing you a speedy recovery!
Chyrl says
Life is a wonderful gift and you have been a gift in my life for years. I look forward to seeing your posts every morning. Your unique way of sharing your passions and surroundings, your HH and Lucy brighten my days. I am so thankful you didn’t stop until you had a diagnosis and a plan for treatment. I know you will be fine! Love and prayers to you and your family.
Katie P NC says
I’ve been reading your blog for a very long time, I comment occasionally, but you’re the first blog I read each morning. I’ve always enjoyed you. Reading this post brought tears to my eyes. It felt like an old friend’s parent had written this- it feels personal. I hope the prognosis and future continue to go well for you. You’ll continue to be in my thoughts.
Teri says
You are amazing and will get through this with flying colors. Going through all this and you still are thinking of others with your giveaway. Love you Mavis. Prayers for you & your family.
Emily B. says
Mavis – THANK YOU for sharing your life with us – both the good (gardening, Lucy, crafting) and the bad (HOA’s and cancer).
This is an extremely personal thing to put out there, and it can make you feel vulnerable. But I hope you feel all the good wishes and swift recovery thoughts being sent your way.
I’ve read your blog for years and appreciate your encouragement and willingness to share – warts and all. Now it’s our turn to give back to you in whatever way we can.
Be well!
MB says
Thank you for sharing your story. It’s a great example of how we should be our own advocates and trust our instincts. ..A great example for your daughter! Bravo Mavis.
Joely says
Dear Mavis,
I am so sorry for this diagnosis. Cancer Sucks!!! I know you have read and heard that this is a very treatable cancer and it definitely is, but you are still allowed to feel sad, scared, angry and everything else in between. Thank you for sharing with all of us and advocating for each of us to stand up, be heard, and look after ourselves without giving up. I can’t imagine the pain this brings up for you and your family after losing your brother. Your ability to tell a story and look at the funny or lighter side of things will serve you well on this journey toward health and recovery. Sending strength, hugs and lots os positive thoughts. You got this!!!
Wynne says
I’m so sorry to hear this — even a diagnosis of “manageable” cancer with the wait for info and surgery is a rotten experience. Good for you on fighting for your health! Wishing you a speedy recovery with lots of home comforts.
Luisa says
Mavis, I echo all the comments saying you are our best “virtual” friend. I look forward to all your posts. You’ve even moved closer to me here in New England. You’re welcome
My primary found a lump on my throat during an annual physical about 10 years ago. I quickly had an ultrasound with biopsy which came back clean. We added an endocrinologist to the mix and continued monitoring it for 5 more years, always with a clean biopsy. Eventually the lump got so big (although it never caused any symptoms) that we scheduled surgery. I decided to go with the less aggressive approach and only remove the half of the thyroid that had the lump since all the biopsies had been negative. I was hoping the remaining half could do the thyroid work and I wouldn’t need meds. Well, it turns out that the half they removed did have some cancerous cells, and blood work showed the remaining half was not cooperating and I would need meds anyway. So 6 weeks after the first surgery I had the second half removed. Both surgeries were completely uneventful. I’m now on daily levothyroxine which is super easy to take, inexpensive, and has no side effects at all. I have a yearly ultrasound, blood work, and follow up with the endocrinologist. I actually look forward to it because I go into the “big city” where I rarely venture anymore despite growing up there.
Long story made longer— this diagnosis did not change my life at all. I have lots of energy and am quite healthy. May God make your story as uneventful as mine.
Elle says
I’m so sorry you’re dealing with cancer. Sending out prayers for good health.
Yes, women have to SCREAM to get the healthcare we need. We must each advocate for ourselves and not take no for an answer. Fortunately you are an assertive woman and persisted.
I tell everyone they must advocate for themselves in healthcare and if they cannot, bring someone with them. I am lucky to be a Registered Nurse as well as aggressive when it comes to healthcare needs. My Mom died of her cancer because her Dr and office RN blew off her every concern for 7 months. When i put it all together on a piece of paper and had my SIL hand deliver and demand it be read in front of her, (after she finally admitted to me she hadn’t been well all year), she was set up for a CT scan and biopsy. 7 weeks later she died.
I share this to educate everyone on what can happen if we don’t stand up for ourselves!
YOU ARE MY HERO! You deserve lots of jammie days to care for yourself. Hugs to you.
Sandi Fleury says
There are no words. Bless your heart. Thank you for sharing. It could save someone else’s life as well. We need to be our own advocates. Sooo glad you pursued. Tears, prayers and love.
Blessings,
Sandi
Amy O. says
I’m so sorry you’re dealing with cancer, Mavis. That really stinks. But I’m glad it was caught early and that you insisted on getting the attention you needed!
I’ve been on daily levothyroxine for 15 years for hypothyroidism and it really is no big deal – it’s simple and easy to take. You just have to get into the habit.
I love your blog and feel like you’re a friend, even though we’ve never met. I’m sure a lot of your readers feel the same. I’m sorry you have to go through this but wishing you all the best.
Pauline in Upstate NY says
Well, Miss Mavis, that is definitely the crowning touch on a year that has already had a whole lot of hard in it. Hearing the word “cancer” definitely sucks, and I bet having to say “cancer” to your parents felt even worse. I won’t go all Pollyanna on you, because this is still a BIG DEAL, but, yes, if you have to pick one, this is a good cancer to have because it has a straightforward fix. All of your readers are know and appreciate your funny, occasionally snarky, views on life, but is lovely to see you let your vulnerable side come out again. Thank you for trusting your readers enough to share something scary. Sending you a big Upstate NY hug (and hoping you got your snow day today)!
Lori says
Oh Mavis, what a shock this must have been. Praying for you and your whole family. Praying God would be very close to you during this waiting time. Thankful to
Hear that it is curable.
Christy says
Hugs to you Mavis and your hubby. I’m sorry to hear about your ordeal and the waiting game. SO glad you stuck to your guns and followed your truth and pushed them for exams/in person meeting etc. Wishing you all the best and know that taking thyroid meds every day will be an easy answer to this stupid cancer. Stay snuggled up and enjoy the snow in NE.
Tina A. says
Praying for peace as you move forward, a fast recovery from surgery and accurate medication dosing for your body afterwards. I have been reading for as long as you have been writing (even read the entries before this blog name). Thank you for sharing glimpses of your struggles as well as your successes. You are a unique, wonderfully made individual and a blessing to many.
Mary Beth says
Way to advocate for yourself! I’ll be sending you lots of love and healing thoughts.
RebekahU says
Mavis – I’m going to pray for you daily! You are so right – you have to advocate for yourself. Stay strong!!
Cheryl says
Mavis I am so sorry. There is never a good time to get cancer but I’ve had breast cancer twice and treatments are so more specific now than ever. Poor you and your husband. Glad you know your body and shame on doctor’s who think they know better. Wish you a speedy recovery and I will be praying for you.
Trisha says
I am a long-time reader/follower of your blog (yours is the only one I follow) and while I usually don’t comment, I always appreciate you sharing your life stories and lessons with us. Like others have said, we have never met, but I feel as if I know you and am sending lots of love and good thoughts your way. You have been an inspiration to me all these years and I just want to thank you for your openness with all of us. You have a virtual community behind you!
Michelle says
Thank you for sharing you with us. Thank you for allowing us to be part of your story. Thank you for sharing this example of necessary self-advocation. Cheers to hope! And sharing a grateful heart for technology and good doctors. Thank you for being part of the balm in our lives. Make a call to action if you need anything and we, your readers, will act.
Kathy says
Thank you so much for sharing your story! This is a good lesson for all of us to stick to our guns when our intuition tells us something! I will be thinking of you and hope for the best outcome. And thank you for just being you.
Linda says
Good for you for pushing forward!! We have to know our bodies and fight to get anyone to hear us. Poor HH… Good thing that men have us to take care of them, dontcha think?? I’m so impressed by the fact that you kept the blog moving along without a hint that anything was wrong. You are one tough broad, and I have all the faith in the world that you will come through this with flying colors! Best!
Debra Basquez says
Oh Mavs, I’m sooooo glad you pressed to get an appointment and followed through. I hope you are healed and made new again. One of my doctors years ago, said you know your body and how it feels. If it doesn’t feel right, press for answers. So right now, I’m in the same process of getting answers. So far they can’t find anything wrong with my symptoms. I have been contemplating cancelling my appointment in January with the surgeon thinking, maybe it is all in my head. You just gave me the courage to keep my appointment and press forward. Something’s not right (for me). Have a great Holiday Season. You’ve got this. I’ve followed you since FF days. I met you once at an event at the Puyallup Fairgrounds. it was an off grid, self sustainability show. you were passing out seed packets or something.
Kristina says
I am so glad you persisted and it was caught so soon! I know several people including my mom who live quite nicely without a thyroid. Sending love and good vibes for strength for you and your family and skill for your surgeon’s hands.
Cathi says
I’m so sorry to hear this Mavis and that you had to push so hard. Crazy. I’m glad you knew your body and were smart and fought to get this checked out.
I really don’t know what to say, but know you and your family are in my thoughts.
Laura Z says
Oh my goodness. I’ll be praying for your speedy recovery. So glad that you insisted on being heard!
Christym says
Please please tell me you get your mammogram every year. It is VERY important to get one every year beginning at age 40. I work in mammography dep. at a hospital. So many cancers can be caught while they are tiny micro-calcifications. Then lumpectomy is sometimes all that is needed. I see so many women that don’t get mammos, or go too long between them, or wait until their breast is deformed or leaking discharge.
Everyone should find a primary care provider while they are HEALTHY. They can do pap tests, breast exams, check reflexes, check you for high blood pressure, diabetes…catching things early. It is so important. And most of the time, its faster and easier to call your pcp than wait three hours at a clinic.
And Mavis, get that screening colonoscopy asap. Let your doc know your brother had colon cancer. Colon cancer is very preventable with screenings.. Early polyps can be removed before they become cancer during your colonoscopy.
J in Ohio says
Your blog is the only one I read and I look forward to it every morning (and reading others comments). You have a wonderful writing style, photos, interests, and boundless energy! Thank you for sharing your life adventures with all of us! Thank you for your brave example of persistence, encouraging all of us to listen to our bodies, and to speak up for our health and well-being. What an amazing example you are to all of us! You are strong and courageous and you will win this battle! Wishing you all the best! “May the Lord refresh your soul today and strengthen you. May you be blessed, encouraged, and rest in God’s peace. May you be uplifted and have hope.”
Jenny Young says
I’ve been through this, very similar situation. I had my thyroid out 8 yrs ago for the same reason.
Just be prepared to sleep for the next few months…no thyroid really whacks up your energy level. Give yourself grace. I didn’t mind sleeping 24/7 because a few months after thyroid surgery I was in the hospital again with torn vertebrate & crushed discs. So…I was very happy to just lay around & let everyone else deal with the world.
Keep looking up.
livingrichonthecheap says
Oh I am so sorry. I know exactly how you feel though – I found out this summer I have pancreatic cancer. If it hadn’t been for a gallbladder acting up I likely wouldn’t still know. On Tuesday (Dec 22) I undergo a surgery to remove part of my pancreas and spleen. In my case it never goes away completely, they just try to extend my life. I feel so very fortunate I get to have surgery as only 10% do. It is so hard to go from a perfectly almost health human to someone who has cancer. I’ve undergone 7 rounds of chemo since Sept 1 to get here. Covid just makes everything so much f*king harder. Hugs to you – I will be thinking of you and praying for you.
Lynne says
Oh Mavis! What awful news, and certainly unexpected. Love and best wishes to you!
Alice Birchfield says
I will be praying for you. We care about you, darlin’. God Loves you even more. Prayers for your whole family.
Kari says
I am so glad you were persistent and advocated for yourself. We know our bodies best, and you have to go with your gut.
Sending you big hugs and sending up big prayers for a full and speedy recovery. You are a trooper, you’ve got this!
Lucille says
The best of luck in your surgery, I will be praying for you.
Eduvina Reveles says
You are in my prayers. Thanks for sharing your story. I hope your skill at advocating for yourself inspires others to do the same. WE KNOW OUR BODIES!!!! And we shouldn’t let anyone tell us differently. Take care.
Aunt Diane from Streator says
Dear Mavis & Anyone Else Who’s Sick:
1). Eat when you’re hungry.
2). Sleep when you’re tired.
3). Work when you’re able.
Praying for your complete and speedy recovery, Girl Scout!
Sondra says
Praying for you! I just recently noticed a thyroid lump in August. Biopsy at ENT not until January. In the mean time the Dr. sent me to the OB/GYN who has found a mass near an ovary. Waiting on cancer marker testing and to be scheduled for an MRI. You are very right, the not knowing is frustrating.
Vicki Rossiter says
Mavis, I’m so sorry. Glad you listened to your body and kept telling the doctors something was wrong. I hate cancer. I lost my sister to ovarian cancer several years ago. Then had to tell my parents I had skin cancer Melanoma 2 years ago. 2 years cancer free. I was left with a fairly large scar on my face that is fading. It is my badge of honor for a fight I won against cancer. I am so glad you shared this and caught it early. Like your story I use mine to encourage people to get spots checked out.
Jamie says
Mavis – I read this early this morning and was getting ready to go to an MRI for a follow up appt. for breast cancer I was diagnosed with about 1.5 years ago at the age of 40. Unlike you, I didn’t think anything was wrong and mine was found by surprise. But like you, I understand how traumatic a cancer diagnosis is even when the outcome is favorable. You are one of two blogs I still read after years and years and ironically the other gal’s blog I read was diagnosed with cancer too! All this to say, I’m so sorry. Take all the pj days you need and I’m glad your husband is taking such good care of you!! Thank you for sharing your story.
Holly says
I’m so sorry you’re going through this, but happy to hear it’s treatable and sounds like prognosis is good. Prayers being sent up for you here in Colorado ❤️
Brenda says
Positive thoughts and prayers to you!
Wendy says
Thanks for sharing about what you have been going through, and your willingness to share this will help others. I’m sorry to hear this and will be praying for you. So glad to hear that it is very treatable. I think many of us will be looking forward to your updates!
Heidi P says
Man oh man. I’m sorry you and your family are going thru this ordeal. CANCER SUCKS in all forms! I am so glad you know your body and followed your instincts. I on the other hand didn’t and now live with a terrible chronic illness. Isn’t it a shame our medical system puts you through hoops to get a diagnosis? After seeking help in my situation I was told to take an antacid before every meal by a specialist. I said “So you’re telling me to take an antacid several times a day for symptoms I don’t have?” and he said “Yep”. Next thing I know I’ve been in the hospital 16 days part of which was on life support in the ICU! Pancreatitis! I know have had to have surgery every year since to combat different effects from that original pancreatitis in 2015. You are a wonderful example on taking care of yourself. Believe it or not you will find good things that come out of your struggle. Yes it will suck at times but there will be positives. I don’t take a moment for granted anymore! Bless you Mavis!
Emily says
I’m so glad you insisted on being seem and heard by your doctors. Wishing you a smooth surgery and a speedy, uneventful recovery. I think our husbands must have been separated at birth. Mine goes pale in the face of anything medical as well.
Lindsey says
You are obviously a fighter—good for you! If sending good wishes works, you are in good hands with all your readers pulling for you.
Michelle Stahnke says
I am so very sorry to hear this news, Mavis. Sending you love and light and all my good wishes.
Linda J says
Thinking of you and sending wishes for peace of mind and total healing.
Kari A. says
Oh Mavis… I will admit, I cried a little when I read this post. I felt like a good friend had told me the news, because over the years, I think I have gotten to know you thru your blog better than my own friends. I look forward to each and every blog post you write and will now look forward to seeing you beat this!
I have battled thyroid disease most of my adult life and have routine scans to make sure nothing has changed. I have had to be my own advocate to get to this point with the doctors and am so glad that you too kept pushing, knowing something wasn’t right. Best of luck to you going forward with treatment…. I, and all of your loyal readers are behind you 100 percent! You are in my thoughts and prayers…
#MavisStrong
Tricia says
Sending healing thoughts your way!
Pam Z says
I’m sorry for the fear this has brought you. I also got a cancer diagnosis a few years back after several years of health issues. My cancer was also slow-growing and very easily treatable with surgery. It all worked out okay. As a result of the long illness prior to diagnosis, it was discovered that my thyroid was really struggling. So I’m on synthroid for the rest of my life, but it’s the only pill I take and it does help. Sending you heartfelt wishes and prayers for good health and peace of mind.
Erin Palazzolo says
I am so happy that you listened to your body and pushed for diagnosis- it is so hard to advocate for yourself (especially with “invisible symptoms”) – you are a rockstar and you can do this!
mary mcmahon says
Oh, mavis, thank god you were so persistent and so loud. I had to do the same thing….ovarian cancer….20 years ago! My best thoughts sending them to you. Mary in Cincinnati
Christa H. says
Thankful you kept going to the doctor to know!! Good for you! Hope you heal well from your surgery. I also had 2 thyroid biopsies in Sept. Found out a few days ago mine will need to be removed in a few years. Take care of yourself.
Sara L says
Mavis – I am so sorry to hear about this. Thank you for sharing.
Mary Anderson says
Here’s to a super quick recovery… Yeah that you found the help you needed. crazy times… Great that you shared your story – which should help others in this time of not taking care of ourselves
Anna G says
Thank you for sharing your story Mavis. This morning I told my husband your story.
He just admitted he has a bump on the back of his throat. He now has an appointment for tomorrow afternoon. With your advice he was pushy with the appointment person.
Hopefully this is nothing. All the best to you and the HH.
debbie in alaska says
Good for you for advocating for your health! And hooray for early detection.
My tip as a thyroid med taker for the last 27 years — keep an extra stash in your purse (Like 5 or 6 pills) — for the mornings you forget and you are out of the house all day (on a fun trip with HH) or if you get stranded somewhere unexpectedly.
Merry Christmas — wishing you a speedy recovery and a healthy peaceful 2021.
Linda Practical Parsimony says
I agree, put a few pills in your purse, all importnt meds. I do.
Linda Sand says
I’m so glad you kept yelling until someone finally heard you. Be gently with yourself during all this; pjs make perfect sense to me.
Kaia says
Oh, Mavis, I’m so sorry to read this!! Much love and prayers to you and all your family!
Lyra says
Boy, you got my attention with that title. I couldn’t even finish reading before I was messaging my husband tearfully telling him what happened. He doesn’t read the blog, but he knows all about you, and how much you and this little community mean to me, even though I don’t say much.
Thankful that you made them listen, thankful that you got it early. THANKFUL for you.
Rest SO well this winter, you deserve it, and then you will be all ready to tackle the glories of spring as planned. Wishing you and the whole family a warm and cozy holiday as well as a peacefully quiet New Year. <3
Sher says
I teared up reading your post. I’m so glad you demanded to be heard. It’s such a difficult time right now getting the medical attention needed when everything is focus on the huge elephant in the room. I wish you good health and much pampering from the HH after surgery.
Brenda L Torres says
wow-I’d like to be with you when you go to those Dr.’s who said you were fine. Bah! Thanks for nothing, guys! i am so glad you stuck to your guns, Way to go!
Kim says
Sending support, a fighting spirit and peace.
Vy says
Your strength and resilience are so inspirational, that’s why I’ve stuck to your blog for years now. You are amazing and I am super proud of you for standing up for what you knew was wrong. That cancer picked the wrong person, cause you’re a fighter. Thinking good thoughts your way.
Stacey says
Thank you for sharing this experience with us, Mavis. I tend to be more the type to not rock the boat, but sometimes you definitely do. I’m learning. I am so glad you didn’t give up on getting help so you could get the correct treatment.
Nancy W says
Thank you for sharing, glad you were so persistent with getting an answer from the doctors! Hope all goes well with the surgery and that you have a rapid recovery. You certainly have such a beautiful home to recover in!
Jason & Valerie Best says
We are sending positive thoughts and prayers for the healing of your body as well as for grace & peace to comfort your heart & mind. What a blessing to have a loving & committed spouse to walk hand-in-hand with you through this journey. GOD bless you both.
Peg says
Mavis, this is too bizarre, but my husband was diagnosed with papillary thyroid cancer in October, and just had his thyroid removed a week ago today. The doctor told us it’s a “good” cancer to have, if you have to have cancer, and are otherwise healthy. Well, my husband is in poor health, so it literally took over 2 months for all his doctors to consent and get a plan of attack in place. Most have only an overnight stay, but his was three days because of all his medical issues. His voice is a little raspy, which may go away in time. Tomorrow is supposed to be his post-op appointment, and then he’ll be on to the next phase. You’ll fly through this because that’s just the type of person you have!
Anita F says
Sorry to hear about this, thankful it was caught early. Sending prayers up for you!
Kay Bowles says
Thank you for sharing your story. You and your family are in my prayers. I look forward to reading the post that says you are back to great health! Hugs
Becka says
So sorry to read this, Mavis. I’m glad you persisted in getting tested and have a plan of action. My daughter had her thyroid removed a few years ago and was a bit apprehensive about scarring. [Which, fortunately hasn’t been much of a problem.] She’s a teacher and her friends showered her with lovely scarves. I will pray you have the best possible results.
Rena says
My husband was just diagnosed with prostrate cancer. I am praying for you and him!
Melissa Lin says
I’m so angry at the way the doctors treated you. A good doctor or nurse can visually diagnose thyroid cancer by LOOKING at your neck. That bump on your neck should be obvious to a trained professional. And the way they dismissed your intuition about your body is so insulting.
As much as cancer sucks, you are fortunate to have a very treatable cancer, as odd as that sounds. My thoughts are with you.
Kristin says
Thyroid cancer is one of the few cancers that I actually know someone who’s survived and is thriving. Glad you advocated for yourself and praying for a full and quick recovery!
Chris M says
Aw, Mavis … I’m so sorry to hear this. My heart just sunk, but I know this is a highly curable cancer to have. Still, I’m sorry!!!! Cancer just sucks! Take care. I’ve won two of your past giveaways. I feel like I need to send you something. For now, I’ll send warm thoughts and heart (thyroid)-felt prayers. Blessings and peace.
Lisa says
Mavis,
Long time reader. I’m so sorry about your diagnosis and upcoming surgery. I’ll be praying for you. As an aside, I’m a speech pathologist in Portland at Mercy and see lots of ENT patients, so if you end up needing anything after surgery, please hit me up.
Patti says
You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. You’ve got this!
SHaron says
For many reasons I won’t go into, this post of yours is one of the most important I have read in a very very long time. Thank you for taking the time to write it all out, and for sharing this part of your life journey with us, and even for the part about your poor hubs. Godspeed to you, with prayers for good health for years to come.
Molly says
Oh Ms Mavis!!! Keep on being You.
Cancer sucks that’s for sure but you are on top of this. Sending good wishes and prayers your way. Know you are well loved by many people across the country. Here’s to a better 2021
Sara says
I’m so glad you were able to advocate for your self. I hope it all goes well.
Sheri Leffel says
Sending you healing energy and light and love. Kick this thing in the butt! ❤️
Tanya J. says
I’m so glad you knew something was wrong and didn’t put it off, and that you were your own advocate. I hope you have a safe procedure and speedy recovery. Your outlook on life is refreshing, your moment of funny with your husband on an otherwise horrible day is exactly why I look forward to reading your emails every evening. Thank you for sharing your life with us, sending you positive vibes.
Laura says
I’m so sorry Mavis. I do know a few people who’ve had thyroid cancer and recovered well. Way to be an advocate for yourself. I’m wishing you good thoughts, peace and contentment. Best wishes to you and your family.
Julia Park Tracey says
I hope reading all these messages encourages you to trust in a good outcome and have faith in your friends and family, as well as the doctors handling your case. Sending lots of love!
PS I think your number one goal for 2021 should be to kick cancer’s ass. Get it done in January and MARK IT DONE!
Andrea says
I am so sorry you have to go through this but you have taught us all a lesson. Listen to our bodies!! Your persistence was incredible especially when all the “professionals” were telling you the opposite of what you felt. Sending you prayers of healing and comfort. Bless you for sharing with your readers. ❤️
Lynne Hughes says
I will be saying prayers for you and your family, keep us posted. I wish you and yours the best.
Kitty Sondern Snyder says
I am so sorry to hear this! You will fight your way through and come out smiling and unbelievably productive and inspiring to us all again!
Wishing for the best possible outcome for you and your family!
I tell everyone about remarkable you and your amazing, down to earth super woman blog. You are going to carry on!
Cheryl says
Just the word cancer scares the crap out of you, doesn’t it?
Well. you are in good company. There are lots of us that have lived thru that scary-ass word. First off, you are one healthy woman and it was caught early… that is all important. Secondly, my friend Ingrid also had thyroid cancer and 10 years later, she is excellent. Thirdly, I am a 17 year uterine cancer survivor and still here to tell you.
Cancer’s butt can be kicked and you will do it.
For now, enjoy the holidays, the best you can and hang out with the ones you love. Keep a good mindset. Take that from some one who has faced fibroid surgery, ganglion cyst removal from the knee, a hysterectomy, carpel tunnel surgery, 2 knee replacements and a hip replacement…all in the past 24 years! Yikes! Prior to that, all I had faced in my first 42 years was a tonsillectomy! lol.
It speaks volumes how important you are to your hubby if he passed out like that. My hubby never passed out for me!
Janis Briggs says
Fight like a girl!! Remember when you were about 7 and someone (possibly a brother) did something horrible… Fight like that girl!!
Sending you good thoughts and prayers.
Linda T. says
So many people care about you, including me. Will be praying for your quick and complete recovery.
I have thyroid disease, and have taken thyroid for 42 years, since my youngest child was born. In fact, I thought it was post-partum depression, because I was a lump. A crying miserable lump. I took synthroid first, like most patients, but it didn’t improve the intense lethargy. The medication was changed to a dessicated thyroid, which helped a lot, but I didn’t feel perky anymore. Ultimately, I saw an article about the thyroid that mentioned that sometimes people need both T3 and T4 replacement (the two thyroid hormones.) My doctor agreed, after reading the article, that I could try it, and it made a world of difference.
Now they have specialists for thyroid. I would highly recommend you locate one. You need that old energy back!!!!!
Jennifer says
ADVOCATE for yourselves. Find someone who will listen. It matters, thank you for highlighting. Prayers for you.
Heather L Bologna says
Mavis, thank you so much for sharing this. Your blog is such a bright spot in my day. Please know that you being thought of, and I will be sending positive thoughts your way. Just focus on one step at a time.
Christine O says
Sending good thoughts your way Mavis! With your positive attitude and level-headed thinking about so many other things you’ve shared with us here, I’m pretty sure you’ll handle this with amazing grace.
We’re all here for you!
Ln says
And just like that your world changes forever…I’m so very sorry. I’m glad you were able to advocate for yourself. Catching it early is key. I’ve beat breast cancer twice. My first oncologist told me that most people think of cancer as black and white, but it’s actually many shades of gray. I hope this helps you as it did me. I was lucky that I was diagnosed at an early stage both times. With your gumption, you will do fine. Sending you strength, peace, and positive vibes. P.S. I’ve worked in pathology for years and can handle just about anything, but I’m the one who passed out when picking up my hubby from outpatient knee surgery! It only ever happens when it’s someone I care deeply for.
Sue says
Praying for you and your family for healing, peace and may God bless you at this time.
Mavis, you are really loved and a lot of people will be praying also.
Laura says
Oh geez Mavis, so glad you listened to your body and persisted. It’s so important to have a primary care physician, even if you’re healthy. Now it’ll be easier to get in and you’ll be with someone who listens to you. I wish you a speedy treatment and recovery. lots of prayers, xo,
Patti Vanderbloemen says
Sigh …what a crappy ending to a crappy year…I am sending you love, hugs, and prayers for the speediest ever recovery!
Denise in TN says
Awwwww Mavis. We are dealing with a similar situation down here with my husband. He had lost 55 pounds in a short amount of time and not one of his local doctors was concerned. I found a physician who would actually listen and do something about it. He has been diagnosed with a rare condition called AL Amyloidosis. It is not cancer per se’ but destroys your organs if left unchecked. I understand the frustration of knowing something is wrong and trying to get someone else excited about it. I am glad for your diagnosis as the diagnosis is the turning point to get well. And I know you will. Many thoughts and prayers coming your way.
Julie says
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Cyndi Parido says
All good thoughts are coming your way. Keep strong. I hope your kids handle this well. Monkey Boy and Girl love their mom. As do your readers.
Anne Radesi says
Mavis, thank you for being so honest about this. We let you into our lives and love hearing about all your adventures. Life sometimes gives us setbacks. Just remember all the invisible people who love you. You are the only blog I follow and think of you as a friend. God Bless.
Barbara J Benware says
Dear Mavis, Your news made me groan. I’ve read your blog since you were a “coupon connie” with those other gals. You make me laugh and cry… often. Thank goodness you persisted and now the fight is on. I will be praying not only for you but the HH and your family. Best to all of you.
Michèle says
I love you Mavis and have for many years. I cried after reading your news, but not out of desperation, but because you’ve definitely gotten under my skin. Look how many lives you’ve touched and will go on touching! Our part is to touch you through our prayers.
Kris R says
Hugs and prayers for a speedy recovery for you. Miss Lucy looks so worried. Thank you for showing us what it takes to get the medical attention we need! Thank you for sharing, it will save many lives of all the people that say OK and just stay home believing it is all in their head. You are brave Girl scout!
Julie says
I wish you well sweetie, sending lots of love, hugs and prayers your way. You cheer my day every day, I love your blog it’s always up beat. Take care and look after yourself which I know H.H. and the family will make you do xx
Susan Lemay Stanley says
Keeping you in my prayers and hoping for successful treatment,quick recovery, and total healing for you “my friend”. Stay hopeful.
Cherri Fagen says
So glad to hear they have found this early. Thank you for sharing, you never know who might read it and be helped also. Praying for you, your family, friends and the medical personnel dealing with you. Wishing you a speedy recovery. I too have been reading your blog for years and love and look forward to it everyday. You are an inspiration to so many!
Debbie Janda says
Oh Mavis. I knew something was going on with the jammie days. I thought maybe Covid depression. I’m sorry to hear it’s cancer. Definitely glad you were persistent and being an advocate for yourself. My prayers and love are with you. ❤️✝️
Mary says
Mavis, please continue to advocate for yourself. When my husband had esphogical cancer, I was his advocate. You have a fighting spirit & all will be well.
Randi says
Dammit. Bye 2020.
Mary G says
We’re all rooting for you, kiddo. I’m with your dad on this–you’re going to be fine. I’m glad you insisted on getting taken seriously and that you finally were. Early detection is so key with so many things. Good luck with everything!
Jennifer says
So sorry to hear this news. Best wishes for a speedy recovery. Kudos to you for listening to your body and not giving up until you were able to see the right doctor and receive a thorough exam and diagnosis.
Laure says
I’m so sorry you’re going through this! I know what it’s like to lose a sibling to cancer at that age — the sadness, and the fear.
You are an amazing example of being your own strong advocate and a great example to us all. So glad it was found early and the treatment is moving along. You will rock this like you do everything else!
Nancy says
Hugs. I’ve been reading your blog via Feedly for a couple of years but have never commented until now.
I was diagnosed at 41 years old with breast cancer in July of 2020 and it’s been quite the wild ride. (Aka new medical trauma every other month, unfortunately.)
I want to thank you for writing about how you had to be an advocate for yourself to show others how to do so.
Women’s pain and symptoms are often not taken seriously, which causes me extreme rage.
May we both have NED asap!
Bonnie says
Mavis,
I’m so sorry to hear of your diagnosis but am glad you were such a self advocate! My thoughts and prayers will be with you.
Bonnie
Linda says
I shall keep you in my prayers
Gigi says
Glad you caught it early! I’m on thyroid med and it’s not too bad. There are lots of support groups out there and Facebook too.
Jodi Ruhl says
So sorry to hear this-Sending prayers and well wishes and know that you’ll be better in no time!
Jodi in MS
Marlene Wurtzbacher says
I am so sorry that the medical profession failed you. That is how I see it and I am a nurse. We were always taught to listen to the patient. These COVID times are challenging but patients need to still be seen! You were giving them all the flags. Shame on us. Thank goodness you did get to the bottom of it and a plan is in place. All the best for a speedy recovery and many more blogs !
Shelia KING says
I knew something was different. You, who has always been so energentic to suddenly change your habits so drastically told me. I’m thankful for your persistence and not settling for the quick answers from the doctors. May you respond to the treatments well. There is a whole crowd of people rooting for and praying for you.
Carolyn says
Mavis,
So sorry to hear about your diagnosis. You are such a trooper and quick to react when you know something’s wrong. I too had cancer, but mine was cervical. Like you, I noticed a change and immediately went to my gynecologist. Since it was “caught” so quickly I was diagnosed as Stage IA and am fine now after an operation.
If you’re interested, I found a website that has great information (IMHO). It’s called the truth about cancer.
Will keep you in prayer.
Greta says
Well Mavis, your news hit hard. I’m cancer free after 7 years but that initial gut punch really takes away your breath. Kind friends, busy hands and appropriate rest all covered with prayer and family love gets you through. Looking forward to recovery posts and hospital humor later this winter:)
Holly J says
The indefatigable Mavis will get through this. Your online community appreciates you and supports you. You’re so talented, so positive, so energetic. Thank you for sharing.
Lillian says
Mavis saddened to hear your news another case in point we are our and need to be our own advocate and yes we know our bodies the best happy you stuck it out until you found someone that would listen.
All the positive vibes going your way you’re strong and you can do this.
Rosaleen says
Hi, Mavis-Sending prayers and hugs. I am sorry that this is happening, but you WILL get through this. Maybe some day we will swap dumb medical stories, way down the line.
Jillian Rose says
Praying for you, Mavis. I’m so sorry. Totally sucks. So thankful you caught it when you did. Merry Christmas to you and your husband, and hugs. I just hung my 2018 chicken ornament from your shop on my tree, and it made me smile. You’re a household name around here. I’m always telling my husband, “Mavis this and Mavis that.” I’ve been reading your blog for years, since you lived in the house that had the little greenhouse in the back, and the huge garden. I’m thankful for you and I pray for better days ahead.
SPankow says
Mavis,
The first thing I want to say is YOU’VE GOT THIS…no, really, I mean it. I had my thyroid removed in 1998 because of Papillary Carcinoma as well. A nurse practitioner doing a physical found a lump the size of a large BB and mentioned I should have a doctor check it out…one visit, one ultrasound and one needle biopsy later, it came back as Papillary CA. I had my thyroid removed, irradiated iodine therapy and went home to await the endocrinologist office to call. 3 mos went by…my face was puffy, my speech was slurred and my hair falling out. My mom called the Dr.s office and they were so shocked! The Dr. had a car accident and almost died right about the time I was supposed to get a call from their office and I had “slipped thru the cracks”. They put me on a high dose of levothyroxine, which gave me anxiety attacks, and then it finally leveled out. That was more than 20 years ago and my medication has been level for most of that time. I don’t wear a medic alert bracelet because one would need to be without the meds for weeks before it would cause issues. Couple of things I learned…
1) Ask the surgeon to hide the incision in one of your neck wrinkles 🙂
2) Your neck will be stiff and sore after the surgery because of the way they prop your neck.
3) Make sure you already have an appointment with an endocrinologist set up.
4) If you get irradiated iodine treatment, they will check you with a geiger counter before they let you leave the hospital 🙂 (you have to stay overnight)
5) Make sure that whatever doctor’s office you go to for your medication monitoring, they realize that your TSH needs to be suppressed, not just kept at the “normal” levels. So many I saw didn’t get this.
You will get thru this, I promise. Please feel free to reach out if you want to talk!
Joanna says
May God Bless you!!!!!!! I am praying for you!! .
Dianne says
Mavis,
I, too, am glad that “they” finally listened to you. Such disrespect for women. Hang in there, thoughts and good wishes for you! Merry Christmas!
Tricia says
You are so right…every day is a gift we take for granted…until we don’t. All the best wishes and prayers coming your way.
Beverly says
Mavis. I am incredibly proud of you for going with your got that something was wrong. I’m sorry the diagnosis is cancer but as others have said, thyroid cancer is so highly treatable an curable. You will do well with the surgery and recovery time. Praying for you can HH. I confess I had to laugh when you described him going out on you. Looking forward to hearing how you are doing.
Donna Nance says
Mavis, I am so sorry to hear about your diagnosis but a lady who persists in finding out what the heck is wrong with her body (that would be YOU!) will overcome this. Let this be a lesson to all of us…if you know something is just not right, hammer down the doctors’ doors until you have an answer. Sending prayers your way. PS Hope the HH is okay.
Michelle L says
I have been a longtime reader of yours. Hugs and prayers heading your way for you and your family. Enjoy your holiday season as much as possible….
Jessica says
I’m quite proud of you. Everyone needs to be there own medical advocate. You did really well!! I’ve been an RN for 43 years.
I had a friend who had her throid removed due to cancer. Just a heads up. You may be prone to depression until your body adjusts and you are able to get on the right dose of medicine. She was very depressed during that time but came out if it. Be kind to yourself and you are correct, it is treatable. Just takes some time. Best wishes and I will follow along.
Jessica
Lynette says
Prayers going up for you. If I’m guessing I’d say you’re a fighter to the nth degree. ♥️
Nancy Sadewater says
November 11th was my one year anniversary when my thyroid was completely removed due to thyroid cancer. Removing it did not change my life as I took the radioactive pill 17 years ago, so my thyroid was already dead. I started having trouble feeling like I couldn’t always swallow. My surgery went well and recovery was complete- no sore throat, raspy voice, etc. Also, the doctor is certain they got it all so no chemo or radiation.
You got this and I will be praying for you, HH, and your entire family.
Courtney says
I thought of not posting because you would be inundated with suppport but…I truly hope you beat this.
When you face mortality you wonder if you matter. If what you did made a difference. Was it enough? I am here to say- YES! I am a daily reader and just tuning in made my day brighter. Thank you for your time,heart, and effort. May peace be upon you and your family.
Kathleen Wilson says
This just shows how important it is to be your own advocate! And know your own self. We are all rooting for you!! Kathleen
Kyrie says
so sorry to hear this, Mavis…crossing all eight paws over here and sending tons of peace and healing….
Peace,
Kyrie, Tao Blue SD AKC CGC CGCA CGCU TKN PAT, Deja Blue SD AKC CGC CGCU TKN PAT
Brenda R says
Love you. You’re a fighter and will beat this. You are freakin awesome. You got this and the world needs you. You are a rock star to me. Don’t you worry this is just a speed bump. You are going to come out stronger.
Judi Y. says
All of us that are lucky enough to read your blog everyday…..we all have our arms around you. I’m so sorry you are going through this.
Mrs Hillbilly says
Holy smokes my dear friend ….. you are loved and have touch so many people !!!! As you know I know you will get through this bump in your road and the better for it ! For you will have reminded many about thier own advocacy and health ! Looking forward to our kayaking adventures this spring !!! I love you ! Mrs Hillbilly
Stacy says
You’re 100% correct — life is a gift. And the humor and joy you bring us through your blog are also gifts, so thank you! Praying for your comfort and recovery…
Rhonda Relyea says
Oh, Mavis. I’m so sad to hear this. What more could go wrong with this year? I have a good feeling you will make it though this just fine. I know how you feel about the waiting. It is such a nagging feeling that just won’t quit.
Take care, Merry Christmas and give Lucy lots of kisses from us. I will be thinking of you and wishing you the best.
Kara says
Sending much love and positive thoughts to you and your family. Thanks for giving us, your readers, the chance to be a part of your life. Hoping all these words of encouragement lift you up as you have done for us so many times! XO
Norma says
Mavis you got this! I am praying for you and HH husband. The unknown is the worse feeling and makes you feel like you have no control. I believe you will be fine! Take care of yourself and dont push yourself.
Tonya says
Mavis
This is so scary. Hugs and prayers for you.
Good job for screaming and demanding that you be heard! You know your body and you listened to it ❤️
Denise B says
Wishing you the best during this difficult time.
Pj Truman says
Life has a weird way of peppering in a little odd humor to help us get through things. Thank goodness you paid attention to your body and were persistent in getting help. Sharing your situation may help someone else. Sending you the best wishes for a successful surgery and quick healing. Taking a thyroid pill everyday will be okay. ❤️
TAMARA says
Oh Mavis! So sorry to hear this news! Hoping for an easy and speedy recovery for you! Hugs!
Tami Lewis says
Im sending every prayer and good vibe that I can. Thank God you caught it early! Rest and do what you need to, we will always be here. ❤️
Katie says
Well, this year really keeps the hits coming, doesn’t it? I’m sorry you have to face this, please know you have a supportive community out here full of people who wish you well.
Lace Faerie says
I am so glad you listened to your body and that you were your own best advocate! I am sorry your are going through this health challenge. I am sending my prayers, positive and loving thoughts your way.
I have to admit, there is nothing that makes me more ANGRY than medical personnel who won’t listen! I am the one who has lived in this body for over 50 years! I know it better than anyone, so listen up. And this will piss off a lot of medical people out there, including those in my immediate family, but remember, doctors are hired (health) help. If they won’t hear you, find one who will. There are too many cases of illnesses that could have been cured if only the medical system had listened and acted upon patients’ self knowledge. Gilda Radner comes immediately to mind.
Personally, after 3 years of complaining, I had to threaten to self-medicate with vodka and left over dental Vicodin before my doctor would listen to me and finally order bloodwork that put us onto the cause of my pain.
I, too, take daily thyroid replacement hormone. It will come to be second nature to take it first thing in the morning. While the coffee brews, I take my pill. For me, it’s just the least of my health challenges.
Mavis, may you and your family be blessed with all you stand in need of. Including a peaceful countenance. Blessings!
Rynda Gregory says
I lost my dad to lung cancer not quite 3 years ago. I exhaled a little moan for you when I read this. My heart is with you and your family. Your point about life.. yes! Cherish it. SO MANY things do not matter. Your time with those you love – nothing beats its.
Love, peace, smiles: I send that to you and yours across the country.
Corinne says
Oh Mavis, be well. I am glad that it is treatable and was caught early. I’m rooting for you too, along with so many others.
Charles Sandra Cirello says
Mavis, God Bless You and Your HH. You are a fighter and you will get through this!! We are all so Thankful you persisted in that medical field. Like Covid19 they are clueless at times. My prayers are with you and I’ll bake you a pie!! Take Care Girlfriend, SandyC.
Michelle says
I wish you a full and quick recovery!
Sandy says
Bless your heart and your husband’s too. It’s a shock to hear any kind of a cancer diagnosis. Can I ask you a favor? Will you blog about your experience with thyroid gland removal, the good and bad of it? There are people reading your blog right now in the same boat as you, feeling alone as if they are the only ones in the world with a thyroid cancer diagnosis. Some of us are being watched right now by our doctors, waiting to see if the nodules on the ultrasound are growing, shrinking or staying the same. Many of us are already taking a thyroid hormone replacement medication and thankfully seeing an improvement in health and well being, thank god. Very glad to read that you found out about this condition early and everything will be fine. Thyroid cancer is very very slow growing apparently? Not to diminish the seriousness of the situation, just to encourage. Best wishes to you Mavis.
Marilyn from Randle, WA says
Praying for your full and speedy recovery! Thank you for sharing this very personal situation with us; I can see with all the responses, we all truly love you. I choose LIFE for you, Mavis. God bless,
Kathy says
Oh Mavis I’m so a so sorry for all you are going through. My husband has his thyroid removed 21 years ago for a lump that ended up being benign. He’s lived on the synthetic thyroid meds since then and has had no problems. I’m sure you’ll come through this with flying colors. Your warrior spirit will attest to that.
Vicki in Birmingham says
I am in total shock to hear your news. I remember what you went through with your brother, so I am sure this news scared and unnerved you. I don’t even know what to say except I know you are a strong woman and I easily see you beating this thing. I have always admired your strength and determination.
I know that all of your readers are sending you love and light and prayers are being sent up for you; positive things are sent from every one in whatever way it is that they believe. These things are sent for your husband, kids and parents too.
Hang in there Mavis and if there is anything that any of us can do for you, I am sure everyone would be willing to do it…just say the word, that certainly includes me.
Please keep us posted. XO
Pam says
Sorry hate to hear that news but it sounds like you’re smart and strong about your body and your needs. Hang in there lots of better days ahead. Thanks for the share it’s a good reminder
Kelly Jo says
I loved this post for many reasons. Mavis, you are so authentic and honest which is a rarity these days; it’s so refreshing! I am sad for you, but know with your spirit that you’ll kick cancer in the ass and send it packing! Laughed out loud at your husband passing out, but only because I can relate! And your last line, about life being a gift is a truth many never come to understand. Keep on keeping on!
MelissainVic says
Wishing you all the very best! And thank you for sharing; I can’t imagine how difficult all of this would be!
Mary Pearce says
Wishing both of you all success with your surgery and recovery. Learning to relax is important; perhaps your homework? You won’t find a more supportive group of people than other cancer patients; they have a lot to teach, too. God’s blessings on you, your HH, and your kids; you will be in our prayers.
Torry says
I still remember when I felt the lump in my right breast. I knew. I just knew. I got in and started the merry-go-round of cancer treatments. I went to my second chemo, three weeks after my first, wearing a Superwoman cape and a matching red hat to cover my bald head. (I had made them, and joked about being a superwoman and that my special power was sewing.) When I did radiation treatments, I went to my second one wearing a tiara because it was my birthday. As, you can see, I joked my way through it. Having a sense of humor helps to tolerate the inconveniences.
You will make it through this.
When I was diagnosed, a friend who had already gone through breast cancer wrote an e-mail to me. She said that when she was diagnosed, her SIL, a cancer survivor, said to her, “Well, sh*t. this sucks! But you are going to be okay.”
And my friend said, “So, I’m saying the same thing to you. Well, sh*t, this sucks! But you are going to be okay.”
So, now it is my turn to say it to you, ” Well, sh*t, this sucks! But you are going to be okay.”
Diana k says
Thoughts and prayers are with you.
Molly says
Oh Mavis, I’m so upset to hear this news. You really do feel like an old friend after reading your blog for so long. I know you will be ok, you just have to get through this. My son who is 27 got diagnosed with cancer last year and the doctors and staff at the cancer center in Scarborough are wonderful. I don’t know if you are going there but if you are you can look forward to a nice bunch of people taking care of you. I’m sure they will be great wherever you go. If you are in the Portland area and need anything please don’t hesitate to email me. I’m sending you healing energy and strength to get through this.
linda bryant says
Mavis I will add you to my prayers. Our daughter was diagnosed with cancer at 18 months. Sounds crazy to say the gift in that was she couldn’t tell time so appointments and treatments were always so far off in her mind She is now a long term survivor with 2 college degrees and is finishing her masters degree in nursing. My point LIFE will be what YOU make of it.
Laugh at the things you find funny. A lot of people won’t see the humor but it will get you through the toughest days!!!!! LIVE< LOVE< LAUGH AND PRAY!!!!!
Rebecca says
Oh, Mavis. I’m so terribly sorry to hear this. But, after years of reading your blog, I have to say that I feel sorry for the cancer since there is no way you will take this lying down. There will be goals! There will be lists! There will be an organized fight! That cancer won’t know what hit it!!
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Stay fierce!
Kristen says
So sorry that you snd your family have to go thru this. You’ve got this!! Sending positive thoughts and prayers!!
JUDY says
Mavis, so sorry to hear this news. Wishing you a speedy recovery and so glad you persisted in finding out what was wrong. This should not happen, but does way too many times. Hope hubby is alright now too. Please take care and get well soon
Karin says
So sorry to hear this! Glad you persisted with the doctors. Sounds like you caught it early. Best of luck to you for your treatment.
Jamie B. says
Cancer sucks! I’m so sorry to hear this! Good thoughts to you.
bobbi says
Praying for great results! I am so glad you knew/know your body. I know mine too and definitely know when something is wrong. We will all be praying for your strength and good health in the future!
NeeNee says
Mavis
So sorry to hear this you are a very positive person and always stay so busy I know you will be fine and all will be good it’s just a total pain to go through I feel the same way about doctors as you do but as we get older it is important to have a PC and get a once a year check because it preventative and they do blood work that can show if something is up thank goodness you caught this early because that’s the key!! You have to take things into your own hands today and speak up you certainly did that and good thing you did!!! I think you might do better with this than the HH
Sending you all the best wishes
Holly says
Even though we have never met, I feel we are kindred spirits. I read your blog daily, love your recipes, home projects – actually everything! I am so sorry to hear of your news. Take good care of yourself and know we are all praying and cheering you on. Merry Christmas Mavis.
Loraine says
I was wracked with sobs the moment I took a minute from my day to read your blog. Your wonderful and wholesome corner of the internet has been a refuge for me, and it feels so unfair to have a kind, delightful, zany, and downright weird in the most wonderful way person be put in harms way. Bleep cancer.
Tracee says
Waiting for my husbands cancer diagnosis was as frustrating as you describe! Thank you for putting it into words! I’m so glad you were able to advocate for yourself! I’m glad it was caught early, and I’m glad you are making strides forward to get everything fixed!!!
I’ll be praying for you and your family. I am positive everything will be fine. I know you’re probably tired of hearing that now, my husband hated it after a couple of months. But he was fine, and is fine, and is now training for bodybuilding competitions. He was diagnosed at 37 and is 42 now and we just got another clean bill of health.
So I say this most sincerely, it’s going to be fine, better than fine!!! Thank you for sharing with us.
Onilee says
Oh Mavis, I’m so sorry to hear of your diagnosis. I am so glad you know your body and were persistent in being heard. Loads of hugs and prayers to you for full healing!! We will keep you and your family in our prayers..
Pat says
So sorry you’re dealing with this but you should be fine. I’ve always said that if I had to have cancer that would be the one I would pick. It’s very treatable. I’m so glad you were persistent!
Kristen Finnemore says
Props to you for being persistent! You listened to your body and did the right thing!
I would have passed out too….
Hang tough and much love!
Kathleen says
Please know that your readers will be cheering for you every step of the way.
Susan Baker says
Dearest Mavis, Sending you well wishes, and healing prayers to stay strong. We live in a toxic world and I recommend reading these books: Knockout: Interviews with Doctors Who Are Curing Cancer–And How to Prevent Getting It in the First Place by Suzanne Summers, Breakthrough: Eight Steps to Wellness by Suzanne Somers, and one more called Outsmart Your Cancer by Tanya Harter Pierce. I believe knowledge is key to making the best decisions for our health. My family is full of cancer (Mother, Father and Brother) and my Mother’s 12 brothers and sisters all had cancer. But we can make changes that alter our destiny with illness. I’ve been reading your blog for eight years and so enjoy your wisdom and have learned so much, make wonderful meals following your recipes, learned how to companion garden, and truly care about you and your family. Know that I will be praying for you and praying for your doctors to make the best decisions for you. Big Texas Size Hug!
Suzanne Shaw says
Mavis – oh my goodness, I’m nearly in tears. I’m SO GLAD you chased everything down – my mom used to live in southern Maine (she’s moved back to Massachusetts to be near us), and always tells me how the care she received (she is also a cancer survivor) was second to none up in Maine! Also your story is so important to me because I’m the one that WANTS to hear “everything is fine” and I would fly out the door and never think about that bump again after the 1st medical person told me I was fine. I must be sure to pursue, especially when you have the intuition to know something isn’t right. Thank you Mavis; you are a gift to all of us!
Betty Bennett says
Mavis, back in 2013, I was diagnosed with non-hodgkins lymphoma. The waiting for a diagnosis, biopsy and staging is the hardest part. Once that was past, chemo stared and later radiation and it went very well. I’ve been right as rain since then, but am ever grateful for the wonderful medical care I received and all the support from friends and family. I send you my prayers and healing thoughts that everything goes just as well for you! Betty
Lynn from NC Outer Banks says
Oh Mavis, what a gut-punch. I can only imagine just how hard it was to make that call to your parents and how equally hard for them to receive it from 3000 miles away. I remember when you posted about your brother. I’m so sorry this is happening to you, but you have performed a public service by sharing this information and confirming the need to self-advocate and to persist regarding one’s medical care. You have always been super intuitive, so I’m not surprised that you just knew. I know quite a few people who have had thyroid cancer and done well, as others have noted. The subplot of HH fainting amidst your serious news…you are such a great storyteller. Nothing like a bit of comic relief for sure. I join all your readers in wishing you the most successful outcome with prayers for a quick recovery.
Karen Phanco says
Mavis, shocking news for you and your family. An earthquake SURE enough! You are such a positive and generous person for so many others, myself included. Prayers for all and blessings in the new year.
Karen
Idaho girl says
Mavis, Sending you prayers and hugs. Stay strong! I’m glad you have that wonderful view out your window to look at during these times. Anne
Laura L. says
Mavis, my thoughts and prayers are with you both now and in the future. As so many others have said, congrats for following through with your gut feeling and seeking out medical care. I’ve always believed that we all have a responsibility to be our own doctor, to a certain extent, and that is exactly what you did. Hang in there and I know that if anyone can get through this with flying colors, it’s you, my friend!
Mimi says
I’m sorry to hear your news but I sense a fighting spirit and all the right instincts for self-care. You can do this!
Abbie says
I just wanted you to know my mom and I have been following you for about 10 years or so. Reading this post made our hearts hurt as if we knew you. We wanted you to know we are praying for a quick recovery!!
Elaine M Standley says
… I have no words. My stomach dropped while reading your news. On the plus side, you are completely correct. It is treatable if caught early and it looks like you have. Any negative thoughts I am turning over to the universe, God , a higher power , however you may think of it. I am a believer so I will be praying for you. You’ve got this whipped. The cancer just doesn’t know it yet
Cathy says
Title got my attention too. Adding you to my prayer list. Grateful that you caught it quick. Please enjoy the holidays. You’ve got this!
kari says
Like all the others who have written, I am so sorry that you are having to go through this. As a nurse, I am appalled at what you had to go through to get diagnosed. Good for you for sticking it out and not letting it go… I always say that the patient knows their body best and what their normal is… and should always be listened to. Best to you!
Susan M says
Mavis, so sorry to hear of your diagnosis. I’m glad you listened to your gut and pushed through. So many people are putting off going to the dr this year, glad you didn’t . Here’s to a speedy recovery!
Karen M says
Oh man, this is truly sad news. I’m sorry your journey to find out what was wrong took months. That’s crazy and probably somehow due to the covid craziness!
I’m glad you now have a clear direction and will get this taken care of soon! Taking meds the rest of your life is much easier than not finding this until it had spread. Be very thankful!
Tell that HH of yours that’s it strong to be weak at times. And there is nothing to be ashamed of. We love and miss you both!
Remember the years working on the ACS Relay? I have always felt lucky none of us got cancer. I’m so sorry to hear of this. The doctors today know so much more than they used to.
We will be sending prayers your way as you continue this journey. Try to have a wonderful Christmas and look forward to a New- New Year!
Susan says
It took me a day to be able to sit and respond to your sad news. I cried yesterday when I read it.
I’ve been reading your blog and laughing with you and learning from you since you were over on that “other” blog. I lucked out when Helen from Idaho mentioned your new site and I caught it before it was removed.
My oldest daughter was diagnosed with breast cancer 2 years ago…had a mastectomy and is doing great . I feel the same pain for you that I felt for her. You really are like a daughter or beloved friend to so many people. And like someone else said…not in a creepy way 🙂
Hoping for a speedy recovery and thoughts and prayers for your whole family.
Erin says
I’m so sorry to hear that. Love you and praying for you and your family.
Elizabeth Frederick says
Dear Mavis,
We are praying for you and thrilled that you persisted when you has a feeling something was wrong. How very brave you are!! Thank you for sharing this news so your fans will have the courage to go to the Doctor and keep going until answers are found. You are so special to us!
Diana says
So glad you are so strong and persistent ! Following your gut instinct is the right way to go! My husband has passed out three times too! It is funny after the fact, a little scary while they are out cold! I know you will conquer this and be back in the garden in Spring! Stay in your jammies and take some time to process everything!
Linda says
Prayers for you Mavis, hang in there and we are all giving you a collective hug!
LauraArnett says
I had to read it twice before it sank in, then I told my husband. I started crying while telling him and he asked me,” How is it again that we are related to Mavis?” I replied,” Sweetheart, we are not related, I read her blog daily and then share what’s going on with her life with you sometimes.”
Long story short- he thought you was part of our family so I told him that YOU ARE and we as a family will be praying for you. I know you’ll be ok because you are one of the toughest and most persistent individuals I have ever had the blessing to know.
Praying for you and so glad I looked you up so many years ago 🙂
Rhea Strauser says
I just recently started following your blog – and missed this yesterday. My heart goes out to you and yours. Be strong and know that there are many pulling for you.
Tracy L. says
I read your blog at night when I’m spent and ready to relax. I was so excited to see your pictures of the nor’easter that blew through. I was sure you’d be so excited!!! So, yes, I’m shocked. But, also, so thankful. I too have been diagnosed with cancer, renal cell carcinoma. It is just like in the movies, that whole out of body experience, I have…….WHAT!?!?! How do I tell my family? I don’t have time to deal with this! But, as usual, you’re attacking this as you do all your projects, and we all have no doubt you will attack it like every other project on your list.
I have followed you since you were on the other blog. You have brought so much joy, perspective, and smiles. I appreciate your candor sharing this vulnerable scary time with all of us.
My husband passed out DURING my c-section with our second daughter, yes, the nurses left me to take care of him! Hello, baby coming out here!! Gotta love them.
Please continue to follow your gut, it has served you well so far, so listen. You’ve got this!
Julie says
Sending you strength, comfort and much love. I hope you can feel the arms of support wrapping you up and know how much we care for you and your family.
Tammy says
I’m so sorry! Adding my prayers for you and your family!
Ellen Marshall says
Oh Mavis- so glad that you advocated for yourself and didn’t listen to the naysayers. You have loads of people who are offering prayers and support- you will get through this.
Cancer is scary- I’m not going to lie. I have had so many bouts with skin cancers- not fun- scary radiation stretch for a month- some tears. Even when we try to take care of ourselves something can come out of the woodwork and grab you.
I, along with SO MANY others will be pulling for you.Take good care – you are in my thoughts.
Linda J Harber says
Mavis, both of my older sisters have had thyroid cancer (I’m probably next on the list). I’m happy to pass on to you that they are both doing well since each having their thyroid removed. Love and good thoughts to you for a speedy recovery. Hang in there. 2021 HAS to be better!
Gail Golden says
Dear Mavis – praying for your healing and strength as you go through this valley. You are a mighty woman – and you have lots left to do on this earth. Fight this thing with all you’ve got – for yourself, your loved ones, and for your blog friends. We love you and care…and we love and enjoy your posts so much. Get better and come back when you’re ready. We’ll be here, pulling for you.
Amber says
Oh, Mavis. I am so sorry. I hate to share that “My family member” type story, but I am – when she was 16 (I think, it’s been so long), my cousin was diagnosed with thyroid cancer, and had the entire thing removed. My family is not known for our general health, and she recovered quickly and without issue. I don’t know you personally, but from reading you blog, I know you’re determined, you’re strong, and you are healthy. I have no doubts that you’re going to kick thyroid cancer’s ass, and you’re going to be just fine.
In the meantime, know that you have an entire community, me including, rooting for you and praying for you.
NancyB says
Mavis – I’m so sorry you are going through this, but good for you for: knowing your body and knowing when something was wrong, for persisting until you got the proper testing and diagnosis, and for finding and maintaining an upbeat attitude about the whole situation. Prayers for a quick, painless and unremarkable surgery and recovery! You will be in my thoughts! <3
Marybeth says
Praying for you and your family.
Jenni says
Hi Mavis! First off I’m sorry to hear about your diagnosis, but good for you to listen to your body and be persistent with your doctors. I’m from The Harbor (you’ll know what that means). I’ve been following you for years, starting way back when you were moonlighting on FF. I am a friend of Mrs. HB and Girly Girl, and you once visited my mom’s community garden on Anderson Island. I was really looking forward to meeting you that day but ended up at the hospital with my daughter 🙁 I am reaching out because I too was just diagnosed with papillary thyroid carcinoma, surgery is scheduled for January. I am thinking it might be helpful and comforting to share our experiences with each other as we go through this together. If you are interested, please email me. I would love to ask you questions about your experience so far. We’ve got this! It’s going to be ok 🙂
Tammy Rehborg says
Hello Mavis,
I too had my entire thyroid removed in November 2016. I had never had surgery before, and mine was to remove a growing goiter. However, they did find cancer in the biopsy. My doctor said it is all out, it had no chance to spread. I feel guilty being an “ accidental “ cancer survivor. Anyway, I had an exceptional surgeon, and I barely can see the scar unless I really look. The medicine works great, and I wore many beautiful scarves for a year to protect the scar site. ( Plus I did not want to much sun on it since I live in Northern Arizona).
I hope all is going better for you.
Heather says
I just found your blog, and what a coincidence….I found out at the very end of December that I have thyroid cancer. Life has been a whirlwind the past couple of months. My mother also passed away in December, just a couple of weeks before I got the news. I am in the process of getting a second opinion now just to get everything squared away and to figure out if I need a total or hemi thyroid removal. I’m encouraged by your outcome and that things seems to be going fairly well for you. Thank you for sharing your story. I am eager to get this whole mess behind me and get back to my normal life!